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Generally Speaking => Serious Discussion => Topic started by: Kayo on March 09, 2010, 02:19:37 PM

Title: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: Kayo on March 09, 2010, 02:19:37 PM
Well, this happened to me today, and it made me want to make a thread. Have you ever found out something about one of your good friends, from somebody else? If you have, it's a pretty awkward experience, leading you to thoughts such as "why didn't they tell me?" "why am I the last to know?"

So yeah, I was completely surprised today. I won't use any names here, but this is how the situation went:

Friend #3 (to #2): <joke> I wouldn't be saying that, you're a bisexual. OHHH.
Me: Eh, don't call someone bisexual unless they really are :/
Friend #1: But he is.
Me: What? (looks at #2)
Friend #2: Yeah...

Numbered as such since #1 is my closest friend of the three, so on and so forth. It just surprised me so much because I could never imagine him, of all people...

I'm also shocked that he never told me, though we're close friends and he told #1 and #3.... it was a very awkward moment.

So yeah, discuss.
Title: Re: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: Macawmoses on March 09, 2010, 04:20:55 PM
I found out one of my friends, in a drunken stupor, had sex with a guy. Nothing too major, but seeing as he is homophobic it was certainly awkward.

I've found out all sorts of little things about my friends through the grape vine. Thing is, I tend not to listen.
Title: Re: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: SkyMyl on March 09, 2010, 04:25:36 PM
I don't have any friends.
Title: Re: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: Kayo on March 09, 2010, 04:58:24 PM
So I just checked his Facebook profile. Turns out he put "Interested in: Women, Men"

I almost blame myself for not seeing that, but in truth, it hasn't always been there.

Quote from: SkyMyl on March 09, 2010, 04:25:36 PM
I don't have any friends.
I'll be your friend <3
Title: Re: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: JrDude on March 09, 2010, 05:02:26 PM
That's basically my life buddy, except it doesn't bother me, nor do I act very surprised.
Title: Re: Finding things about your friends indirectly.
Post by: Mystic on March 09, 2010, 08:20:06 PM
Pretty much things related to mistakes and sex.