Man...they stink...figuratively.
There's a girl I'm mad into and have been for over two years...sounds like a long time.
And things seem to be picking up with me and her. Like, signs or definitely pointing to me and her getting together. but I get scared poop-less that I might have said something wrong and she's mad or that she just turns and leaves.
I guess i'm just a nervous scared kinda guy...
I would like for you all to share something about your current relationship life or any experiences you have with relationships.
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 27, 2010, 09:42:39 PM
Man...they stink...figuratively.
There's a girl I'm mad into and have been for over two years...sounds like a long time.
And things seem to be picking up with me and her. Like, signs or definitely pointing to me and her getting together. but I get scared poop-less that I might have said something wrong and she's mad or that she just turns and leaves.
I guess i'm just a nervous scared kinda guy...
I would like for you all to share something about your current relationship life or any experiences you have with relationships.
You fail to mention that you were with her for almost two years before you guys broke up, and that you've been fighting for her since the breakup.
I can't wait 'til you're back together. :3
Also, chicks suck. I haven't had the best experiences.
Oh Rob you don't have to tell me anything, I've heard enough of your...escapades...O_o
Haha, women.
Relationships suck.
I'm in one now. But, you know, it gets annoying and really repetitive when your boyfriend's idea of a "date" is coming over to your house and not leaving the couch *cough*. Or an anniversary present is a piece of paper with a stick figure of what he points out is supposed to be you with the caption of "LOL" next to it (okay, that is kind of funny). Or that you need to suggest every single thing for him, since he apparently doesn't have a mind of his own and doesn't have his own opinions (and when he does have his own opinions, it's only so that he can argue with you about some arbitrary point because he just enjoys doing it so much). Or that he can get clingy and jealous over nothing at all.
What's wrong with friends with benefits? Because if you ask me, it's the best way to go.
...But don't listen to me. Just because I don't think that I work well in relationships, doesn't mean I think everyone shouldn't be in relationships. If it works for people, they should do it. I can see the upsides to relationships, too. You should keep at this girl, Skelator, perseverance wins the race, or something like that... But don't get clingy. Unless she likes that.
My girlfriend is pregnant.
What does that tell you about my relationship?
If relationships have taught me anything, it's that you shouldn't ever let yourself get too attached to a girl.
It's a ninny when you lose her.
That's all I have to say.
Quote from: Mystic on March 27, 2010, 10:38:36 PM
My girlfriend is pregnant.
What does that tell you about my relationship?
That you don't care enough to use a condom. Especially since you complained here after she was officially announced pregnant.
My one and only girlfriend cheated on me. And lets just say, it was in the worst way possible.
Anyways, I'm done with women for a while. I need to at least get through school before I think about even dating again.
Quote from: Smokey the Bear on March 27, 2010, 10:01:01 PMYou should keep at this girl, Skelator, perseverance wins the race, or something like that... But don't get clingy. Unless she likes that.
Thanks Smokey :) It's great to get advice from the illest bear around...Yogi is so lame XD
And I am don't you worry. Like Riddler said before, I was with her for almost two years and it's been a while since the break up and I'm still crazy about her. I just hope we get back together soon, the anticipation is killing me lol.
Oh, one more question for you guys, is a WoW pin a good idea for a present? 'Cause I bought one for her :P
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on March 28, 2010, 12:50:24 AM
That you don't care enough to use a condom. Especially since you complained here after she was officially announced pregnant.
I complained? I said I was happy. go read the thread I posted in Power down :\
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 27, 2010, 09:42:39 PM
Man...they stink...figuratively.
This sentence doesn't match up with the rest of your post. I haven't seen an explanation really why girls stink... Oh well.
Gee, what do I think about girls? I've had more successful relationships with guys. Though, that's not saying much.
Quote from: Nanako on March 28, 2010, 03:08:22 PM
This sentence doesn't match up with the rest of your post. I haven't seen an explanation really why girls stink... Oh well.
I kinda failed at explaining that sorry :X
They're just such complex things...like, they can either make you the happiest guy in the entire world, or lower than the lowest form of dirt. And the second one seems to be the current trend for me. Maybe it's not so much the girl as much as it is me...I don't know.
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 28, 2010, 04:36:09 PM
I kinda failed at explaining that sorry :X
They're just such complex things...like, they can either make you the happiest guy in the entire world, or lower than the lowest form of dirt. And the second one seems to be the current trend for me. Maybe it's not so much the girl as much as it is me...I don't know.
Uh, that's not just girls. That's people in general.
Well, I had that once. I really looked up to this girl. And I got more and more anxious the more I hung out with her. Then she noticed my feelings, and she left.
Nothing I can do about that. But yeah, I've been there and that feeling sucks!
I've said it and I'll say it again, and then probably again.
Girls are mind intercourse .
I can go on so much about this subject, but I'm not.
Most girls do suck, which is why i'm bi. When girls piss me off, I have somewhere else to go ^__^
But seriously, girls around here really do suck, i've had relationships with a few around here, but they are all total whores, so none have been all that serious. I've got a boyfriend right now, it's been about 6 or so months, he's awesome.
Phaze wins thread.
Quote from: Phaze on March 28, 2010, 07:46:46 PM
Most girls do suck, which is why i'm bi. When girls piss me off, I have somewhere else to go ^__^
But seriously, girls around here really do suck, i've had relationships with a few around here, but they are all total whores, so none have been all that serious. I've got a boyfriend right now, it's been about 6 or so months, he's awesome.
So do you mean that figuratively or literally?
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 28, 2010, 06:38:44 AM
Thanks Smokey :) It's great to get advice from the illest bear around...Yogi is so lame XD
And I am don't you worry. Like Riddler said before, I was with her for almost two years and it's been a while since the break up and I'm still crazy about her. I just hope we get back together soon, the anticipation is killing me lol.
Oh, one more question for you guys, is a WoW pin a good idea for a present? 'Cause I bought one for her :P
Thanks for the support, the bear appreciates it. And remember, only you can prevent forest fires. So if anything fire-related happens, we know who to blame. You. I've already given the police your address, just in case.
And, uh, if she plays WoW, then yes. If not, then probably no. But it's the thought that counts, anyway. What's the occasion?
Quote from: Smokey the Bear on March 28, 2010, 08:50:20 PM
So do you mean that figuratively or literally?
Thanks for the support, the bear appreciates it. And remember, only you can prevent forest fires. So if anything fire-related happens, we know who to blame. You. I've already given the police your address, just in case.
And, uh, if she plays WoW, then yes. If not, then probably no. But it's the thought that counts, anyway. What's the occasion?
Oh...oh my :O Well now I'll try extra hard to not light fires in the woods.
And she does play...it's just I bought an Alliance pin...only to recently discover she plays Horde :( Could 'cause a rift. And I just got it just to be nice...I saw it and thought of her :)
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 28, 2010, 09:21:02 PM
Oh...oh my :O Well now I'll try extra hard to not light fires in the woods.
And she does play...it's just I bought an Alliance pin...only to recently discover she plays Horde :( Could 'cause a rift. And I just got it just to be nice...I saw it and thought of her :)
Aw, that's so sweet. Well, unless she
wants to start something bad with you, giving that to her and telling her that it reminded you of her so you wanted her to have it will make her happy. I'm sure she'll love it. But then again I don't know her. You do, though, so I trust you know what you are doing.
Quote from: Smokey the Bear on March 28, 2010, 09:25:26 PM
Aw, that's so sweet. Well, unless she wants to start something bad with you, giving that to her and telling her that it reminded you of her so you wanted her to have it will make her happy. I'm sure she'll love it. But then again I don't know her. You do, though, so I trust you know what you are doing.
She'll pretend to be upset just to save face with The Horde but she'll love it. and it might sound cheap, but I used a blank piece of paper to wrap it, but I drew a bunch of her favorite band's logos on it along with Penguins...it was kinda are thing ^_^
This post will make me look like a stupid hypocritical ninny but i'll just go with it.
Alright and it begins.
My first *Real* girlfriend was named Courtney Nicole Page. We were happy together for 4 years, but then she broke up with me saying "I don't want a relationship" I was like "Alright, however if you ever want to be in one, will you tell me I will be the first person you consider?" And she said yes. The very next day she said she was with this kid named Brannon who had been flirting with her for a while.
I raged, screamed cussed her out etc. *This was 3-4 years ago.* eventually they broke up and we were having a long talk. She said she wanted to be with me again, I said "Are you 100% sure you want to be with me, I don't want to be with you if you are going to leave me again in a few days" She said yes she was sure.
The very next morning she said she was back with Brannon and that we were broken up.
This itself tore at me however it's not near the worst part.
She eventually broke up with him and got together with this kid named Justin, who was an ignorant intercourse who did not like the truth. She began to experiment with him with some small things, as in First kiss, making out nothing sexual. However once he touched her they broke up.
That's when we got back together again, and she promised that she wanted me to be her first as in sex.
However we ended up breaking up again, and she got together with another guy named Jacob.
Now it should be obvious but I was very very in love with this girl. Ever since the first year we were together I thought to myself "We will be together forever" however once she was with Jacob I woke up after not texting her for a night from jealousy and etc.
And her text was this
"I need to tell you something, but I don't know how...Jacob came over last night..and well...i'm not a virgin anymore"
I think that broke me
I went into a blind rage just yelling and yelling and yelling at her, cussing her out saying things as idiotic as "Tell me you hate me so I will never feel the need to talk to you again"
She was not replying at this point, and a few days later I was called into the police department for harassment. I turned it against them by saying her boyfriend sent me texts saying he wanted to kill me. So the police just said "Fuck it" and stopped talking to all of us.
I have her number blocked and it is not legal for me to contact her for 2 years. *This was around November 2009*
If anyone read that entire story you have my thanks. I'm actually glad I finally wrote everything down minus a few details.
This relationship is the reason I don't think sex should be so open to teenagers, personally I don't even like Sex. I'v had it, and don't see the big deal. I think it is highly over rated, however I still am very biased and hate nearly everyone who has done it regardless of age. I am an awful hypocritical person, however that's just me.
Anyway moving on, after her I went out with a girl named Hannah, who was the first girl I slept with. She was an emo girl that kept making me promise "Never break up with me, I want us to be together forever". And the kind of person I am, is if I go out with someone it means I love them and don't want to break up with them. However after making me promise this sort of thing for ages, after we had sex a few times she broke up with me, to go back out with her old boyfriend which she had promised she would never do.
Afterwards, I contemplated going out with a girl named Laura who liked me, however I realized I was jumping to relationship to relationship and needed time away.
And now I realize I don't want one, girls are not to be trusted and I despise there very gender.
I have been cheated on, lied to and had my heart shattered by the same girl. And my step mom cheated on my step step dad which lead to even more bent up anger against the female gender. I started smoking for a short while and basically drank myself under the table at points.
To extend a small amount *Don't get me wrong my real dad was just as awful* my real parents were druggies who left me off at an orphanage when I was 3 months old and there reason was "We just did not want a kid" My real mom over dosed while pregnant with my little brother/sister and my real dad I think was in jail but i'm sure he's out now.
Never cut myself, never contemplated suicide, just terrible depression, anger and remorse.
I am truly grateful to all that have read this fully.
Schemer, man, I'm really sorry. :( What you've been through is ridiculous and I have no idea of what to say.
I can never change your mind about how you feel about females. But what I can do is offer to be here if you ever need someone to talk to..no homo of course.
As for sex...it's complicated...I've had sex with only one girl...and at first it was for the great feeling I got. but after the breakup, I did some thinking and I came to realize that it's a very emotional, spiritual thing that should not be thrown around so much by younger kids.
UPDATE:I just asked her out to lunch or dinner sometime Good news...
She said yes!!!!
Bad news...
She's busy all week and won't have time off from school until the summer time. :(
So I can do one of two things...
1)Wait..which is BORING
2)Have Rob drive me upstate to see her in the middle of school, steal her from her class and drag her to Applebees
...
Start the car Rob :D
Thanks m8.
Yeah, that's what I thought, I was always a pretty hardcore hater of sex, but I just wanted to be the first with the girl I loved. When I wasn't it made me hate the subject even more ;_;.
Still, no problem now. Getting a little less stressed over time.
"it's a very emotional, spiritual thing that should not be thrown around so much by younger kids".
I agree.
Also, this is just from personal experience, but I would say going out with someone who you have broken up with is a bad idea, just because the link was severed once, and it's a high chance it could happen again.
But that's just me.
Quote from: Schemer on March 28, 2010, 10:26:20 PM
Also, this is just from personal experience, but I would say going out with someone who you have broken up with is a bad idea, just because the link was severed once, and it's a high chance it could happen again.
But that's just me.
Good advice. I've heard that a lot...and I know the risks...but I just wanna try ya know? We live to learn from our own mistakes. I have made mistakes in my past and I've learned from them.
Righto, mistakes in the past are the stepping stones to the future.
I made that up, I like it!
Go for it, I just hope you don't get hurt. Especially if you really like the girl, it's crushing.
Quote from: Mystic on March 28, 2010, 12:07:00 PM
I complained? I said I was happy. go read the thread I posted in Power down :\
Originally when you found out your girlfriend was/might be pregnant, you complained here, I believe it was also in Power Down.
Quote from: JrDude ♦ on March 29, 2010, 12:03:33 AM
Originally when you found out your girlfriend was/might be pregnant, you complained here, I believe it was also in Power Down.
I suppose.
Schemer was played.
I'm only being harsh because you're taking it out on the whole gender, with that first girl was your fault for not learning. And the rest happens to a lot of people, I think you're just over reacting.
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 27, 2010, 09:42:39 PM
Man...they stink...figuratively.
There's a girl I'm mad into and have been for over two years...sounds like a long time.
And things seem to be picking up with me and her. Like, signs or definitely pointing to me and her getting together. but I get scared poop-less that I might have said something wrong and she's mad or that she just turns and leaves.
I guess i'm just a nervous scared kinda guy...
I would like for you all to share something about your current relationship life or any experiences you have with relationships.
chill out dude.
I was like that with my last ex. Hearing his name even made me feel weird. I got really weak whenever I saw him. He was like everything I was looking for, and to make everything better, he liked me back. But we were friends for a year before we started dating. Things were great. I'd do anything for him. But eventually it got old. We just got tired of each other. I was in love and still am though.
Well, I read through this thread (from my last post), and have a few things to note.
Quote from: Mystic on March 28, 2010, 07:51:57 PM
Phaze wins thread.
Just curious. Why?
Quote from: Schemer on March 28, 2010, 09:43:22 PM
I am truly grateful to all that have read this fully.
I've read it all, and nobody should deserve to go through all that. There's one thing that's bothering me, though, and that's this:
Quote from: Schemer on March 28, 2010, 09:43:22 PM
This relationship is the reason I don't think sex should be so open to teenagers, personally I don't even like Sex. I'v had it, and don't see the big deal. I think it is highly over rated, however I still am very biased and hate nearly everyone who has done it regardless of age. I am an awful hypocritical person, however that's just me.
Aside from being hypocritical, it also strikes me as illogical. If you're thinking sex is overrated and don't see the big deal. Then why did you have it and why do you get angry to people who had sex? Not criticizing, but I just don't understand this.
Quote from: K-Cee on March 29, 2010, 10:21:23 AM
chill out dude.
I never understand this. So many times do I see people say "chill out" or "calm down" while that person is, actually, calm. I think it aggravates people if they're told to calm down, especially IF they're calm. It aggravates me, at least. So, can you explain me why people say this?
Sorry to everyone if I may sound harsh. I'm just really curious and want to know the answer to these questions.
Quote from: Smokey the Bear on March 28, 2010, 08:50:20 PM
So do you mean that figuratively or literally?
Both, I guess.
Quote from: L10 on March 29, 2010, 10:01:50 AM
Schemer was played.
I'm only being harsh because you're taking it out on the whole gender, with that first girl was your fault for not learning. And the rest happens to a lot of people, I think you're just over reacting.
...Did you only read the first half of my post? Bravo.
Don't get my wrong, I don't care how harsh you are. I don't give a rats ass about anyone's opinion on this forum. Like I have said before I detest the majority of you.
However if you are going to insult me at least get your facts straight before doing so. Otherwise you make yourself look like an idiot.
My second girlfriend also lied to me.
*Also I did not go over all my relationships, just the two that had the most show of how untrustworthy girls are.*
Also I said my Step mom cheated on my step dad.
I don't believe I am over reacting, I am speaking from my experience. I did learn, you are incorrect. I learned not to trust that gender again, because they are not to be trusted.
To respond to Nanako. I tried it, to see what all the fuss was about. Plus I loved my girlfriend, and after being crushed by my first I thought it would help relieve stress.
but it did not, and it was not anything to get addicted to, or to think so highly of.
Quote from: Schemer on March 29, 2010, 03:03:58 PM
...Did you only read the first half of my post? Bravo.
Don't get my wrong, I don't care how harsh you are. I don't give a rats ass about anyone's opinion on this forum. Like I have said before I detest the majority of you.
However if you are going to insult me at least get your facts straight before doing so. Otherwise you make yourself look like an idiot.
My second girlfriend also lied to me.
*Also I did not go over all my relationships, just the two that had the most show of how untrustworthy girls are.*
Also I said my Step mom cheated on my step dad.
I don't believe I am over reacting, I am speaking from my experience. I did learn, you are incorrect. I learned not to trust that gender again, because they are not to be trusted.
To respond to Nanako. I tried it, to see what all the fuss was about. Plus I loved my girlfriend, and after being crushed by my first I thought it would help relieve stress.
but it did not, and it was not anything to get addicted to, or to think so highly of.
I did read all of your posts, and you were played. You got stupid and fell for them. I do believe you are over reacting. All you're doing is trying to protect yourself because you're afraid to get hurt again.
Get over it, happens to everyone.
By calling every girl a slut, ninny, dirt bag, whatever your insult of choice is, you are calling not just my crushes that, but my friends too. I can get sensitive about that.
Girls are very peculiar creatures, seeing as they're humans, we're as peculiar as they are.
I've got no problem with them, and I have my odd morals and ideas.
Yes, I am calling every girl, you will ever date. Fall in love with, or even like a Slut, a dirt bag and a liar.
You can either A. Be sensitive about it.
Or B. Not give a rats ass about my opinion, sort of how I don't give two poops about yours.
I'm not afraid to get hurt, not at all. I could care less about that. I just don't want to waste my time and money on something worthless in the long run.
That's all.
Quote from: Schemer on March 30, 2010, 06:44:14 PM
Yes, I am calling every girl, you will ever date. Fall in love with, or even like a Slut, a dirt bag and a liar.
You can either A. Be sensitive about it.
Or B. Not give a rats ass about my opinion, sort of how I don't give two poops about yours.
I'm not afraid to get hurt, not at all. I could care less about that. I just don't want to waste my time and money on something worthless in the long run.
That's all.
Then go gay.
If girls are such whores, such sluts, such bad people in general, why not go for guys instead? We're obviously so much better right?
There's nothing wrong with being gay, I'm simply saying that with your logic, you might as well.
If there's no attraction to males, it's kind of hard for a person to go gay, even if they despise the opposite sex. Allegretto will just die alone with no one since he likes to makes sweeping generalizations about 3.4 billion people.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on March 30, 2010, 10:05:52 PM
If there's no attraction to males, it's kind of hard for a person to go gay, even if they despise the opposite sex. Allegretto will just die alone with no one since he likes to makes sweeping generalizations about 3.4 billion people.
I was simply countering his logic, I understand that you can't just wake up and say "I'M GAY :D."
Quote from: Syd on March 31, 2010, 07:41:47 AM
I was simply countering his logic, I understand that you can't just wake up and say "I'M GAY :D."
I did once...but it was more like "I'M GAY!?!?!" D:
Nah I'm just kidding haha...I have no problem with homosexuals. I got a gay friend myself. He's mad chill, we played Brawl for four hours yesterday :D
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 31, 2010, 07:43:29 AM
I did once...but it was more like "I'M GAY!?!?!" D:
Nah I'm just kidding haha...I have no problem with homosexuals. I got a gay friend myself. He's mad chill, we played Brawl for four hours yesterday :D
lol
Really, there's nothing wrong with being gay. But hating half the people on the planet because you got played by a few? It's just stupid.
meh girl is bi
:o
Quote from: L10 on March 31, 2010, 09:15:32 AM
meh girl is bi
:o
Congrats.
Is she one of the two you were crushing on?
Quote from: Syd on March 31, 2010, 08:28:33 AM
Really, there's nothing wrong with being gay. But hating half the people on the planet because you got played by a few? It's just stupid.
Well, it can cause a ton of distrust towards females really. And it is his decision to choose what he believes in.
Quote from: Smokey the Bear on March 31, 2010, 10:14:16 AM
Congrats.
Is she one of the two you were crushing on?
Unfortunately not, but this looks like it's going to work out
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 31, 2010, 10:30:41 AM
Well, it can cause a ton of distrust towards females really. And it is his decision to choose what he believes in.
And it's my decision to say that his decision is silly.
Quote from: Syd on March 31, 2010, 10:38:44 AM
And it's my decision to say that his decision is silly.
And it's my decision to allow you to make the decision that his decision is silly. I also decide to believe his decision, although rash, is well founded and it's his decision to make such decisions that can ultimately decide his fate...
Quote from: Skelator2112 on March 31, 2010, 11:35:09 AM
And it's my decision to allow you to make the decision that his decision is silly. I also decide to believe his decision, although rash, is well founded and it's his decision to make such decisions that can ultimately decide his fate...
I'm a girl, and I can still agree that it is well founded. If you get hurt enough times, you might begin to make generalizations about that gender, whether it is true or not. There are going to be plenty of guys that are going to hate me just because I'm a girl, some of them don't even have reasons for it. And there are plenty of girls out there who hate guys for similar reasons that Allegretto hates girls.
I, personally, am not a very trusting person. My boyfriend hates that and gets mad at me a lot for it. I don't even have a heartbreaking story or anything like that to back it up. I'd consider my own mistrust of people way less rational than Allegretto's hate for women.
But everyone is entitled to their own opinion. That just happens to be mine.
My first actual crush really built up in 8th grade (it started in 6th grade). We traded email addresses and talked through them for the most part. In real life, we were friendly acquaintances; to my understanding, she mostly thought I was pretty smart and very funny (we even had an in-joke between us), and enough of my friends told me that they thought she liked me, so I was elated and confident enough to... say some things...
Keep in mind that this was my first "true love" and I was but a young lad--12-13 years old. I thought I'd frickin' marry this girl, so I told her everything about how I felt and that everything would be "forever" and all that namby-pamby stuff (I thought I meant it too). She basically said that she just wanted to be friends. Things got a little awkward, but we were still friends... until I sent two emails that were grossly misconstrued.
In our correspondence, we came upon the subject of randomness--bcuz, randum is SO funny rite??? (we were 13)--and I told her some random things that were purely jokes--nothing serious or sexual--that I thought she would find humorous. To my great dismay, I was wrong. Long story short, we stopped talking and that's when things got completely awkward. I got over her a couple of months later; then I went to high school and saw dozens of potential crushes.
Currently, I have a crush on an unbelievably attractive girl (inside and out), the most attractive I've ever seen. But who knows? Maybe I'm just saying that. Anyway, what really grinds my gears is that lately I've been hoping for signs of the perfect situation to ask her out in--when we're basically alone together (a nice little paradox)--and one such situation arises. She's walking down a deserted hallway in school, me walking about 15 feet behind her. After a while, she quickly glanced over her shoulder and probably noticed me. We must have been walking that way for a minute. Of course, I finally recognize the "sign" and go through every nervous guy's phase of "should I say something?" and of course don't. I'm even more mad off because I rehearsed this great mini-speech...
In general, I don't hate girls or stereotype them. However, I sympathize with Allegretto for what he's been through. All of you should cut him some slack instead of accusing him of overreacting; it's a natural reaction, and a phase--he'll get over it, but you realists out there (i.e. those who forcefully tell him "Get over it./You're overreacting./It happens to everyone.") won't help him. It's like telling the same to a mourner. I hope none of you would do that, as these situations are more similar than you'd think.
And yes, I did read all of your story Allegretto/Schemer. PM me if you want to talk about it or anything else. =)
To Skelator, I feel for you too (no homo). PM me if you want as well. =)
Allegretto would get some slack if he didn't feel the need to be an ass across the forums. If someone consistently posts with a "I hate this place" attitude, why would you expect the community to give him any slack or sympathy for that matter?
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on April 01, 2010, 04:39:49 PM
Allegretto would get some slack if he didn't feel the need to be an ass across the forums. If someone consistently posts with a "I hate this place" attitude, why would you expect the community to give him any slack or sympathy for that matter?
That's kind of why everyone seems to currently hate him :u
I don't hate him ;-; - and I think he hates me most of all. Funny how that works out.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on April 01, 2010, 04:39:49 PM
Allegretto would get some slack if he didn't feel the need to be an ass across the forums. If someone consistently posts with a "I hate this place" attitude, why would you expect the community to give him any slack or sympathy for that matter?
If only I gave a poop friendly. I did not post that because I wanted sympathy, I posted it based on the topic. I said thank you to all who read it, because they took the time to read it.
I stated earlier I don't give a rats ass about about what anyone here thinks, because I detest the majority of you.
Also KJ, I don't hate you. In fact the person I hate the most on this forum is Friendly.
It's an honor it really is.
Also, friendly I like how you said *He will die alone*
I don't know if this was supposed to impact me in any way, however I am very content with this. In fact I welcome it. I would say about 80% of relationships don't work out, and one way or another if they do one will die before the other, which would make the vast majority of people those who die alone.
I have friends, i'm living with two team mates right now, I won't have a significant other because I don't want one.
To expand even further, I have friends that are girls. I hate them all, before I get to talking with them. If they seem like one of the people who's personality is not detestable IMO, then I befriend them, however relationships are pointless. I do not think my opinion is rash, I spent 8 years trying relationships, and they did not work out. I would say everything we learn is based off of experience and repetition. If you touch a stove top for the first time, you find it is hot. If you fall from a small distance, you learn that it hurts.
Same with anything else in this life, if All of the girls I have dated, and most of them I know are liars, and sluts. Then how would I know the difference? I don't. And so I distrust and detest the vast vast majority of girls. And do not trust a single one.
I'm not gay, i'm bi. However i do not want a boyfriend, for I do not believe it would work out either. I did laugh however when I saw that Kilroy said he was countering my logic. I do not think I have once said "Guys are much better, much more trustworthy and much better people than girls" I was simply talking about the relationships I have had, I could go into detail with the friendships I have had, but that's not what this topic was about.
Allow me to change my entire statement.
I despise the majority of the human race.
To generalize all that I would say in this post: I pity you.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on April 01, 2010, 04:39:49 PM
Allegretto would get some slack if he didn't feel the need to be an ass across the forums. If someone consistently posts with a "I hate this place" attitude, why would you expect the community to give him any slack or sympathy for that matter?
Oh, well I didn't know that. I might have seen one piece of evidence of this a while ago, but didn't think much of it. Anyway, Allegretto probably doesn't hate this place as much as you think, as he keeps coming here to post. Unless he has some sort of dependency on this forum or frequents it only to torment others, I think he likes it more than he says as well. Either way, I still think he deserves some sympathy--as it's been said before; no one should have to go through that.
Quote from: Schemer on April 02, 2010, 06:37:06 PMSame with anything else in this life, if All of the girls I have dated, and most of them I know are liars, and sluts. Then how would I know the difference? I don't. And so I distrust and detest the vast vast majority of girls. And do not trust a single one.
I'm not gay, i'm bi. However i do not want a boyfriend, for I do not believe it would work out either. I did laugh however when I saw that Kilroy said he was countering my logic. I do not think I have once said "Guys are much better, much more trustworthy and much better people than girls" I was simply talking about the relationships I have had, I could go into detail with the friendships I have had, but that's not what this topic was about.
Allow me to change my entire statement.
I despise the majority of the human race.
You'd know this better than I would, but I wouldn't go so far as to say you're bisexual. Unless you're especially attracted to males in the same way you are
(were?) to females, I'd say that you're still heterosexual, but without the desire for female contact. You're a misanthrope and misogynist. It's no wonder you don't want to deal with women, but I still wouldn't say that you're therefore also attracted to men. In purely my own opinion, I expect you'll get over it (for lack of a sympathetic term) in a few years.
Don't sweat it though. Things like this need time and much thought. Don't let people tell you how to feel or what to do. You can ask for help, but do what you feel is right and
feel what you feel is right. That's how I dealt with my problem.
Quote from: RX-78-2 (TerribleFrog) on April 02, 2010, 07:38:48 PM
Oh, well I didn't know that. I might have seen one piece of evidence of this a while ago, but didn't think much of it. Anyway, Allegretto probably doesn't hate this place as much as you think, as he keeps coming here to post. Unless he has some sort of dependency on this forum or frequents it only to torment others, I think he likes it more than he says as well. Either way, I still think he deserves some sympathy--as it's been said before; no one should have to go through that.
He'll probably say something along the lines of "i like to laugh at you idiots olololol"
I was like that once, but now I kinda feel like it's a form of "brotherly love" I suppose.
Internet girlfriend when I was 12. God that was stupid.
Girlfriend for like two weeks a year ago.
Been with a girl for the last two months, and she's amazing.
I think girls are pretty awesome as a gender. I have more friends that are girls than are guys. I just don't deal with the stupid/slutty ones.
Quote from: Totla on April 02, 2010, 08:43:39 PM
Internet girlfriend when I was 12. God that was stupid.
Girlfriend for like two weeks a year ago.
Been with a girl for the last two months, and she's amazing.
I think girls are pretty awesome as a gender. I have more friends that are girls than are guys. I just don't deal with the stupid/slutty ones.
Congrats on the girl man :D
And I've learned not to associate with the stupid/slutty ones.
Which brings me to this update...some new, eh, shall I say, findings, have brought me to the conclusion to stop chasing after this one...it's been almost a year and she's not worth my time anymore :( *sigh*
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 02, 2010, 09:14:15 PM
Congrats on the girl man :D
And I've learned not to associate with the stupid/slutty ones.
Which brings me to this update...some new, eh, shall I say, findings, have brought me to the conclusion to stop chasing after this one...it's been almost a year and she's not worth my time anymore :( *sigh*
Aw, sorry to hear that. What happened? But I guess it's good to realize that sooner than later. And if she isn't worth your time then that means there is someone better out there for you who actually is worth it. You just have to keep looking. I'm sure you'll find the right girl eventually.
Quote from: KJ on April 02, 2010, 09:37:09 PM
Aw, sorry to hear that. What happened? But I guess it's good to realize that sooner than later. And if she isn't worth your time then that means there is someone better out there for you who actually is worth it. You just have to keep looking. I'm sure you'll find the right girl eventually.
Thanks man...that means a lot you have no clue...
I don't wanna spread poop over the internet...let's say she wasn't telling the truth...a lot...and she was leading me on..like a skinny guy riding a fat guy by dangling a donut in front of him...:'(
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 02, 2010, 09:40:27 PM
Thanks man...that means a lot you have no clue...
I don't wanna spread poop over the internet...let's say she wasn't telling the truth...a lot...and she was leading me on..like a skinny guy riding a fat guy by dangling a donut in front of him...:'(
Sounds like she was just in it for the attention. At least now you can stop wasting your time on her and find a girl that'll be there for you.
...And why do I suddenly want to watch an episode of the Biggest Loser where they make the contestants do a challenge similar to your simile?
Quote from: KJ on April 02, 2010, 09:51:28 PM...And why do I suddenly want to watch an episode of the Biggest Loser where they make the contestants do a challenge similar to your simile?
They do that? I should start watching that show lol.
And I don't know many girls sadly :/. I'm fine being single but it's been a while since I've been "on the scene" Maybe Roberto can help me 'cause he's such an amazing friend :D
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 02, 2010, 09:40:27 PM
Thanks man...that means a lot you have no clue...
I don't wanna spread poop over the internet...let's say she wasn't telling the truth...a lot...and she was leading me on..like a skinny guy riding a fat guy by dangling a donut in front of him...:'(
It happens, but now that you've experienced it you can hopefully learn from it and be able to prevent it from happening again.
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 02, 2010, 09:55:03 PM
They do that? I should start watching that show lol.
And I don't know many girls sadly :/. I'm fine being single but it's been a while since I've been "on the scene" Maybe Roberto can help me 'cause he's such an amazing friend :D
No, but I would totally watch the show if they did.
And yeah, a rebound girl could help you get back into things. And who knows, maybe the next one will turn out even better than your last. Patience is key in relationships... unfortunately.
Rebound girls I avoid until they get over it at least, I don't like taking advantage of a situation like that, the whole time I'd feel like I cheated.
Quote from: Totla on April 02, 2010, 08:43:39 PMI think girls are pretty awesome as a gender. I have more friends that are girls than are guys. I just don't deal with the stupid/slutty ones.
This pretty much sums it up.
Quote from: RX-78-2 (TerribleFrog) on April 02, 2010, 07:38:48 PM
You'd know this better than I would, but I wouldn't go so far as to say you're bisexual. Unless you're especially attracted to males in the same way you are (were?) to females, I'd say that you're still heterosexual, but without the desire for female contact.
I highly doubt anyone here has heard of the Kinsey Sexuality Rating scale. However I will summarize it.
The scale ranges from 0-6. 0 Being completely heterosexual, 6 being completely homosexual, and 3 being perfectly bisexual.
What amazes most people is the vast majority of human beings are not 0's or 6's. Most range from 1-2 or 5-4.
I am a 2. And I would say without a doubt that no one is a 0. Nor a 6.
Of course most ignorant people would have to say something like "I aint no secret gay foo"
Also, L10. I do like to laugh at you idiots, you are one of my favorite one's to laugh at, because, You say some of the most idiotic statements on this forum, and you do not give any context into why you say it. For example, even though I say I don't give a rats ass about your opinion, nor do I care what anyone here thinks you continue to say things along the lines of "I pity you" however not explain your statement.
Which to me, is like me saying "You are an idiot" and you respond "Why?" And my conclusion is "Because your an idiot"
Statements without context are pointless.
Which to me, is laughable.
Because you don't understand and you wont understand, and if you don't care what I have to say than there is no need to back it up with anything.
Also, I saw that edit.
Quote from: L10 on April 03, 2010, 02:55:34 PM
Because you don't understand and you wont understand, and if you don't care what I have to say than there is no need to back it up with anything.
Also, I saw that edit.
I am very glad you saw the edit, I changed the word "Guy" to "Gay"
And added a small sentence.
I applaud you, I am glad to be in the presence of a man who has never made a mistake.
Yes, however I believe if you are going to state something about me, you may as well give a reason. For like I said, without context words are meaningless, and should not have been written. Or in this case typed.
Quote from: Schemer on April 03, 2010, 02:57:03 PM
I am very glad you saw the edit, I changed the word "Guy" to "Gay"
And added a small sentence.
I applaud you, I am glad to be in the presence of a man who has never made a mistake.
Yes, however I believe if you are going to state something about me, you may as well give a reason. For like I said, without context words are meaningless, and should not have been written. Or in this case typed.
The edit I saw was "I am a 3." and yaddayadda about being "perfectly bi"
And I make plenty of mistakes, like the relationship I'm in is probably a mistake. From what I know right now she's more lesbo than bi. I also jumped in way to fast(well I was pushed into it)
Quote from: L10 on April 03, 2010, 03:11:00 PM
The edit I saw was "I am a 3." and yaddayadda about being "perfectly bi"
And I make plenty of mistakes, like the relationship I'm in is probably a mistake. From what I know right now she's more lesbo than bi. I also jumped in way to fast(well I was pushed into it)
That was not an edit in the post, it was me stating the Kinsey sexual scale, to respond to TK about saying "I don't think your bi".
yeah you're right, I must've made that up
I make edits to most of my posts, however that was not one of them.
Also, TK. I don't hate this forum. I hate the majority of people here. I was going to leave but Taira said that if I left she would also stop posting, and she has some friends here. So I did not want her to lose them because of that.
gee, I guess I must be stupid
Quote from: L10 on April 03, 2010, 04:28:31 PM
gee, I guess I must be stupid
I don't really understand what you are getting at. You said something, I said you were wrong. Also you had just said in the previous post "Of course I make mistakes" that was simply another one.
Of course if you would like me to be harsher on my conclusion I can be.
more chicks less dicks kthx
You're all gunna hate me...but it's back on...just a misunderstanding really...I'm an intercoursing d-bag =(
Quote from: Schemer on April 03, 2010, 02:36:43 PM
I highly doubt anyone here has heard of the Kinsey Sexuality Rating scale. However I will summarize it.
The scale ranges from 0-6. 0 Being completely heterosexual, 6 being completely homosexual, and 3 being perfectly bisexual.
What amazes most people is the vast majority of human beings are not 0's or 6's. Most range from 1-2 or 5-4.
I am a 2. And I would say without a doubt that no one is a 0. Nor a 6.
Of course most ignorant people would have to say something like "I aint no secret gay foo"
I'm probably a 1 then, but you didn't say what number you were. Care to share?
Quote from: Schemer on April 03, 2010, 04:12:22 PM
I make edits to most of my posts, however that was not one of them.
Also, TK. I don't hate this forum. I hate the majority of people here. I was going to leave but Taira said that if I left she would also stop posting, and she has some friends here. So I did not want her to lose them because of that.
TK...? D: But I know what you mean (TF--or RX, as of now please). It doesn't really matter. =)
Anyway, it's good that you're here for another person. If it makes you feel any better and/or stay longer, I don't hate you and would like it if you stayed. ^_^
Quote from: RX-78-2 (TerribleFrog) on April 04, 2010, 11:00:47 PM
I'm probably a 1 then, but you didn't say what number you were. Care to share?
TK...? D: But I know what you mean (TF--or RX, as of now please). It doesn't really matter. =)
Anyway, it's good that you're here for another person. If it makes you feel any better and/or stay longer, I don't hate you and would like it if you stayed. ^_^
TK is ThirdK
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 04, 2010, 11:06:56 PM
TK is ThirdK
I can tell, but if you read the posts that Schemer is referring/responding to, they're mine. Also, ThirdK is so far not in this thread.
Quote from: Skelator2112 on April 03, 2010, 06:43:33 PM
You're all gunna hate me...but it's back on...just a misunderstanding really...I'm an intercoursing d-bag =(
Oh man, what happened?
Quote from: RX-78-2 (TerribleFrog) on April 04, 2010, 11:00:47 PM
I'm probably a 1 then, but you didn't say what number you were. Care to share?
TK...? D: But I know what you mean (TF--or RX, as of now please). It doesn't really matter. =)
Anyway, it's good that you're here for another person. If it makes you feel any better and/or stay longer, I don't hate you and would like it if you stayed. ^_^
He said that he's a two. And I don't necessarily think it's good if he's just staying for another person's sake. It sounds like they are just staying for each other. They should stay because they want to stay. Otherwise they should get out and enjoy life. And I don't mean that in a bad way at all, just seems like a hassle to go onto a site that they don't want to in the first place. If he's staying because she has friends here, he should take her out to meet some people, and then they can both be happy.
Quote from: KJ on April 05, 2010, 05:57:42 PM
If he's staying because she has friends here, he should take her out to meet some people, and then they can both be happy.
..We are.. =)
..but I know Bryan doesn't hate everyone here...I think he says more than he means..
...I just say that because he's really nice in person...but I know he has friends here..
Quote from: KJ on April 05, 2010, 05:57:42 PMAnd I don't necessarily think it's good if he's just staying for another person's sake. It sounds like they are just staying for each other. They should stay because they want to stay. Otherwise they should get out and enjoy life. And I don't mean that in a bad way at all, just seems like a hassle to go onto a site that they don't want to in the first place. If he's staying because she has friends here, he should take her out to meet some people, and then they can both be happy.
I agree, but I was talking in a broader sense. It's good that he's staying here for someone because that shows that he really does care about someone, rather than being a total misanthrope. It's a very good sign actually. Other than that though, I agree; he shouldn't burden himself, but rather talk it over with his friend.
Quote from: Chrona on April 07, 2010, 05:49:50 PM
..We are.. =)
..but I know Bryan doesn't hate everyone here...I think he says more than he means..
...I just say that because he's really nice in person...but I know he has friends here..
Wow! You're just about the nicest person I've seen on this site! =D I also completely agree with you.
This forum needs more chicks. So we can talk about dudes... and how much they intercourse ing suck.
I'm not saying any of you do.... just making a point.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 09, 2010, 11:25:39 AM
This forum needs more chicks. So we can talk about dudes... and how much they intercourse ing suck.
I'm not saying any of you do.... just making a point.
I FULLY AND 100% AGREE WITH THIS POST.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 09, 2010, 11:25:39 AM
This forum needs more chicks. So we can talk about dudes... and how much they intercourse ing suck.
I'm not saying any of you do.... just making a point.
Does a G.I.R.L count?
If it did, then half the forum would count.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 09, 2010, 11:25:39 AM
This forum needs more chicks. So we can talk about dudes... and how much they intercourse ing suck.
I'm not saying any of you do.... just making a point.
You, KJ, Shorti, Talim just came back, Repaige pops in every now and then, Vive uses IRC.
Also, we have alot of gay users that can count as girls.
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 09, 2010, 12:20:25 PM
You, KJ, Shorti, Talim just came back, Repaige pops in every now and then, Vive uses IRC.
Also, we have alot of gay users that can count as girls.
Including you?
Quote from: K-Cee on April 09, 2010, 11:25:39 AM
This forum needs more chicks. So we can talk about dudes... and how much they intercourse ing suck.
I'm not saying any of you do.... just making a point.
I agree, and I am a straight guy.
I think people in general suck.
Quote from: Phaze on April 09, 2010, 06:05:06 PM
I think people in general suck.
this is what I try to tell everyone. i intercourse ing hate humans.
Quote from: K-Cee on April 10, 2010, 12:42:58 AM
this is what I try to tell everyone. i intercourse ing hate humans.
Oh god, we got a furry in the making.
Quote from: Jeff Probst on April 10, 2010, 02:43:05 AM
Oh god, we got a furry in the making.
shut up, you love me. :)