Okay, actually went out with some friends (co-workers actually, but they're friends none the less) to celebrate my manager's birthday (26, and joining the fire department in July...) and one of my friends brings his sister along (we went to Waffle House cuz it was the only thing opening). She's nice, kinda cute and shy. The table I'm at is me, her, her bro (my co-worker) and my manager. Good evening and such. Afterwords I ask if I could get to know her better (a.k.a. asking her out).
"Oh, well, I already have a boyfriend" - she says
-_-;;
Basically, every girl I try asking out already have boyfriends....this is getting irritating
why does this keep happening? X_X;; (go ahead and laugh)
Im not laughing. Anyone who has relationship problems is a friend of mine.
I recently asked a girl who I really love out, we had been together before however sombody broke up with her without me knowing. After a while of akward silence between us I told her the truth about what happened. I think my words were
Since our relationship got so screwed up because of whoever broke up with you, would you like to try going out with me again?
No I dont really want a relationship right now. Was her reply
:'( :'( :'( :( :( :( :( :robotsad: :robotsad: :-[
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
First one is the hardest...since it's usually a "no".
After that first one you really are okay if she says no, you just still want the yes...
I'm 0 for 5 so far...and it's getting irritating
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:26:11 PM
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
how are you guys too afraid to even try it once? X_X;;
Sure, I've never gotten a yes, but hey, at least I'm trying.
(thanks for the confidence booster!)
Advice: Just turn your brain off and blurt it out without thinking about it...
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
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Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:28:05 PM
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:26:11 PM
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
how are you guys too afraid to even try it once? X_X;;
Sure, I've never gotten a yes, but hey, at least I'm trying.
(thanks for the confidence booster!)
Advice: Just turn your brain off and blurt it out without thinking about it...
I'm just always afraid it'll turn awkward.
After all, I'm not exactly Jhonny Depp. Or whoever that freaking blond-haired gay boy is in High School Musical.
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:32:21 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:28:05 PM
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:26:11 PM
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
how are you guys too afraid to even try it once? X_X;;
Sure, I've never gotten a yes, but hey, at least I'm trying.
(thanks for the confidence booster!)
Advice: Just turn your brain off and blurt it out without thinking about it...
I'm just always afraid it'll turn awkward.
After all, I'm not exactly Jhonny Depp. Or whoever that freaking blond-haired p***y is in High School Musical.
More Advice: It's always going to be awkward....regarldess of the situation...
One of the girls I asked out I've known since middle school and we got along great the past few months so I knew her and it was STILL really awkward.
Most girls hate that prick in HSM...at least most girls I know anyway X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:28:05 PM
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:26:11 PM
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
how are you guys too afraid to even try it once? X_X;;
Sure, I've never gotten a yes, but hey, at least I'm trying.
(thanks for the confidence booster!)
Advice: Just turn your brain off and blurt it out without thinking about it...
It's just...I don't know..
Probably the fear of rejection.
Mehh...don't really have anyone I'd want to ask out anyway.
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Because you touch yourself at nigth.
lol gurl problems.
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:34:43 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:28:05 PM
Quote from: LinkXLR on May 10, 2008, 09:26:11 PM
The same thing basically happened to me, but I never got the courage to ask her out. :/
Oh life, I'll get you back someday.
how are you guys too afraid to even try it once? X_X;;
Sure, I've never gotten a yes, but hey, at least I'm trying.
(thanks for the confidence booster!)
Advice: Just turn your brain off and blurt it out without thinking about it...
It's just...I don't know..
Probably the fear of rejection.
Mehh...don't really have anyone I'd want to ask out anyway.
I do... But I fear rejection and shunning. T_T
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on May 10, 2008, 09:36:18 PM
Because you touch yourself at nigth.
lol gurl problems.
I was waiting to see how long it would take for one of these posts to show up.
Triforce_Luigi: rejection is going to happen regardless. Not everything will be a "yes"
I'm 0 for freakin 5 and I don't feel TOO bad about it X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:35:29 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Sorry, let me try to re explain it
After months of us flirting we finally decided to go out with each other. (I got a yes >.>)
Than a few days afterwards somebody broke up with her without me knowing, after a while of akward silence I told her what happened and wondered if she would go back out with me and she said no.
and the fear of rejection just holds you back, if you dont embrace that fear you can never enjoy the happiness of a Yes.
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:38:50 PM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on May 10, 2008, 09:36:18 PM
Because you touch yourself at nigth.
lol gurl problems.
I was waiting to see how long it would take for one of these posts to show up.
Triforce_Luigi: rejection is going to happen regardless. Not everything will be a "yes"
I'm 0 for freakin 5 and I don't feel TOO bad about it X_X;;
Yeah, but the only girl I wanna ask out is also the only girl that I KNOW will say no.
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:39:35 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:35:29 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
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Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Sorry, let me try to re explain it
After months of us flirting we finally decided to go out with each other. (I got a yes >.>)
Than a few days afterwards somebody broke up with her without me knowing, after a while of akward silence I told her what happened and wondered if she would go back out with me and she said no.
and the fear of rejection just holds you back, if you dont embrace that fear you can never enjoy the happiness of a Yes.
Well, I wouldn't know what a yes feels like tho X_X;;
Triforce: Yea, youre in quite the problem there. Hm...what I would do, ask if she were still staying would it be a yes?
I guess that would make me .5 for 5 if I count that one thing tho...
Nayrman, your a cool person you'll get a yes eventually I know ya will.
I hope you dont think of me as a complete idiot/moron :'(
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:48:11 PM
Nayrman, your a cool person you'll get a yes eventually I know ya will.
I hope you dont think of me as a complete idiot/moron :'(
I've met dumber :-P
not even the worst baseball player ever went hitless in his career...
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:49:35 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:48:11 PM
Nayrman, your a cool person you'll get a yes eventually I know ya will.
I hope you dont think of me as a complete idiot/moron :'(
I've met dumber :-P
not even the worst baseball player ever went hitless in his career...
So you do think im stupid :(
good motto...
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:51:11 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:49:35 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:48:11 PM
Nayrman, your a cool person you'll get a yes eventually I know ya will.
I hope you dont think of me as a complete idiot/moron :'(
I've met dumber :-P
not even the worst baseball player ever went hitless in his career...
So you do think im stupid :(
good motto...
Everyone IMO is stupid...
meh, I'm just a baseball freak
Its still a good motto..
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:42:49 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:39:35 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:35:29 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Sorry, let me try to re explain it
After months of us flirting we finally decided to go out with each other. (I got a yes >.>)
Than a few days afterwards somebody broke up with her without me knowing, after a while of akward silence I told her what happened and wondered if she would go back out with me and she said no.
and the fear of rejection just holds you back, if you dont embrace that fear you can never enjoy the happiness of a Yes.
Well, I wouldn't know what a yes feels like tho X_X;;
Triforce: Yea, youre in quite the problem there. Hm...what I would do, ask if she were still staying would it be a yes?
I guess that would make me .5 for 5 if I count that one thing tho...
It wouldn't be a yes, cause she also has the unfortunate problem of hating me... T_T
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:59:31 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:42:49 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:39:35 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:35:29 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Sorry, let me try to re explain it
After months of us flirting we finally decided to go out with each other. (I got a yes >.>)
Than a few days afterwards somebody broke up with her without me knowing, after a while of akward silence I told her what happened and wondered if she would go back out with me and she said no.
and the fear of rejection just holds you back, if you dont embrace that fear you can never enjoy the happiness of a Yes.
Well, I wouldn't know what a yes feels like tho X_X;;
Triforce: Yea, youre in quite the problem there. Hm...what I would do, ask if she were still staying would it be a yes?
I guess that would make me .5 for 5 if I count that one thing tho...
It wouldn't be a yes, cause she also has the unfortunate problem of hating me... T_T
Well that would also be a problem.
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:59:31 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:42:49 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:39:35 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:35:29 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:33:29 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 09:31:45 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on May 10, 2008, 09:30:04 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on May 10, 2008, 09:19:41 PM
Well at least you had the guts to ask her out.
I couldn't work up the courage to ask a girl out.. :-\
Same here. And it really sucks cause I actually like a girl who's leaving town in two weeks and who doesn't want to have long-distance relationships... So if I asked her out, the answer would be "no" for sure...
At least you know what the answer would be...
wait...you couldn't either?
am I the only one who has around here? X_X;;
Read my post, does everyone really just ignore me :'(
oh sorry.
wait....so you got a yes before or something? That post was confusing X_X;;
Sorry, let me try to re explain it
After months of us flirting we finally decided to go out with each other. (I got a yes >.>)
Than a few days afterwards somebody broke up with her without me knowing, after a while of akward silence I told her what happened and wondered if she would go back out with me and she said no.
and the fear of rejection just holds you back, if you dont embrace that fear you can never enjoy the happiness of a Yes.
Well, I wouldn't know what a yes feels like tho X_X;;
Triforce: Yea, youre in quite the problem there. Hm...what I would do, ask if she were still staying would it be a yes?
I guess that would make me .5 for 5 if I count that one thing tho...
It wouldn't be a yes, cause she also has the unfortunate problem of hating me... T_T
wait wait wait....
you want to go out with her and yet she hates you? no offense but now that makes no sense.
Thats nothing, the only real pain you can feel is when you make it with the girl fall deep in love with her, than ends up hating you when you still love her.
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:14:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
You did? huh.
And I almost said something else.
Also, do you look geeky? nerdy? or do you have a lot of acne? or are you a "4" going for "9s"?
'cause those things do matter.
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:14:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
You did? huh.
And I almost said something else.
Also, do you look geeky? nerdy? or do you have a lot of acne? or are you a "4" going for "9s"?
'cause those things do matter.
geeky? sort of. Not big glasses or dress shirts all the time. But I do look sort of nerdy. I am by no means "ugly or unnattractive" but I could stand to work out more and the like.
I'd say I'm a 5 going for 6's or 7's. I think the highest I've ever asked would be a 9 tho. Wierd thing was she was the one who had a boyfriend, but after I asked "If you didn't have a boyfriend, just for hypothertical sakes, what would it be". Oddly enough she was the one who said she'd go out with me if she wasn't in a relationship at the moment X_X;;
Wierd huh?
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:21:28 PM
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Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:14:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
You did? huh.
And I almost said something else.
Also, do you look geeky? nerdy? or do you have a lot of acne? or are you a "4" going for "9s"?
'cause those things do matter.
geeky? sort of. Not big glasses or dress shirts all the time. But I do look sort of nerdy. I am by no means "ugly or unnattractive" but I could stand to work out more and the like.
I'd say I'm a 5 going for 6's or 7's. I think the highest I've ever asked would be a 9 tho. Wierd thing was she was the one who had a boyfriend, but after I asked "If you didn't have a boyfriend, just for hypothertical sakes, what would it be". Oddly enough she was the one who said she'd go out with me if she wasn't in a relationship at the moment X_X;;
Wierd huh?
Lies.
And if it's not a lie, then she said a lie.
Also, don't be confident when you do something, confidence backfires, especially if it shows or it's obvious.
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:25:54 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:21:28 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:14:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
You did? huh.
And I almost said something else.
Also, do you look geeky? nerdy? or do you have a lot of acne? or are you a "4" going for "9s"?
'cause those things do matter.
geeky? sort of. Not big glasses or dress shirts all the time. But I do look sort of nerdy. I am by no means "ugly or unnattractive" but I could stand to work out more and the like.
I'd say I'm a 5 going for 6's or 7's. I think the highest I've ever asked would be a 9 tho. Wierd thing was she was the one who had a boyfriend, but after I asked "If you didn't have a boyfriend, just for hypothertical sakes, what would it be". Oddly enough she was the one who said she'd go out with me if she wasn't in a relationship at the moment X_X;;
Wierd huh?
Lies.
And if it's not a lie, then she said a lie.
Also, don't be confident when you do something, confidence backfires, especially if it shows or it's obvious.
I don't think it's a lie since we've been firends for a while. But think that if you want.
How does confidence backfire? I've been really tentative half the time nad those were the worse of the experiences.
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
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Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:21:28 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:16:32 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:14:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:09:10 PM
Find a fat chick, less likely to say no. Or if she was fat, then you're screwed.
How did I know you'd say something like that X_X;;
You did? huh.
And I almost said something else.
Also, do you look geeky? nerdy? or do you have a lot of acne? or are you a "4" going for "9s"?
'cause those things do matter.
geeky? sort of. Not big glasses or dress shirts all the time. But I do look sort of nerdy. I am by no means "ugly or unnattractive" but I could stand to work out more and the like.
I'd say I'm a 5 going for 6's or 7's. I think the highest I've ever asked would be a 9 tho. Wierd thing was she was the one who had a boyfriend, but after I asked "If you didn't have a boyfriend, just for hypothertical sakes, what would it be". Oddly enough she was the one who said she'd go out with me if she wasn't in a relationship at the moment X_X;;
Wierd huh?
Lies.
And if it's not a lie, then she said a lie.
Also, don't be confident when you do something, confidence backfires, especially if it shows or it's obvious.
I don't think it's a lie since we've been firends for a while. But think that if you want.
How does confidence backfire? I've been really tentative half the time nad those were the worse of the experiences.
Well, it backfires for me. The other way around does too (non-confidence bringing good fortunes).
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
HA thats akward :|
And if you hvae no confidence how can it backfire (loophole)
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 10:30:30 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
HA thats akward :|
And if you hvae no confidence how can it backfire (loophole)
Backfireing isn't always bad.
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
that is really awkward...
Yea, I don't understand how non=confidendt helps.
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:31:40 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
that is really awkward...
Yea, I don't understand how non=confidendt helps.
That had nothing to do with what I was talking about to you. Just a whole different subject.
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:32:45 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:31:40 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
that is really awkward...
Yea, I don't understand how non=confidendt helps.
That had nothing to do with what I was talking about to you. Just a whole different subject.
I was responding to both posts at once X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:45:41 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:32:45 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on May 10, 2008, 10:31:40 PM
Quote from: JrDude on May 10, 2008, 10:28:42 PM
Also, here's a weird thing that happened to me.
Last year, a girl I liked said she was moving. Due to that, I gave her a love note before she left, so I expected a "no" which made me less scared to say anything. She never actually answered, but she ended up not moving :-[
I haven't talked to her since.
that is really awkward...
Yea, I don't understand how non=confidendt helps.
That had nothing to do with what I was talking about to you. Just a whole different subject.
I was responding to both posts at once X_X;;
Oh, well I don't know how non-confidence helps either, it just does (for me)
Having confidence doesent help either. Believing you can do somthing doesent mean you can, its better to have none.
It could just be me, but it looks like everyone that has/will asked/ask someone out only did it for just that gf/bf relationship. Priorities, guys. First, get to know a girl, and become friends. Then ask her out. And then break up. You'll never have a solid relationship in high school.
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 10:49:10 PM
Having confidence doesent help either. Believing you can do somthing doesent mean you can, its better to have none.
Every post you make depresses me. Get serious help.
There are more girls then boys in this world.
I love how you guys fall for the usual "excuses" girls come up with.
Quote from: Allegretto on May 10, 2008, 09:18:40 PM
No I dont really want a relationship right now. Was her reply
:'( :'( :'( :( :( :( :( :robotsad: :robotsad: :-[
I can relate. :'( :'( :-[ :'( :( :robotsad: :'( ;_; Asked her out again, she really likes someone else. Me, not so much.