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Title: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on May 31, 2008, 11:38:05 PM
More than 10 years of friendship.  Gone. 

All gone. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on May 31, 2008, 11:40:24 PM
Yeah that tells us a lot.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Super on May 31, 2008, 11:45:21 PM
Quote from: Blaziken on May 31, 2008, 11:40:24 PM
Yeah that tells us a lot.
You know nothing about friends. Silence.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on May 31, 2008, 11:57:07 PM
Quote from: SUPERKOOL on May 31, 2008, 11:45:21 PM
Quote from: Blaziken on May 31, 2008, 11:40:24 PM
Yeah that tells us a lot.
You know nothing about friends. Silence.
Ignorance is bliss.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a intercourse ing person is she? 

Fucking this.  I need a god darn beer.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Macawmoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Super on June 01, 2008, 12:14:24 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
Yes, what kind of beer?
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:17:55 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
It's a LONG story. 

Well, let's see if I can make this somewhat short... I've been best friends with Nicole for more than 10 years, and I'm usually the only friend that she actually likes. We've been through thick and thin together, and always came out laughing and smiling. But things right now are pretty darn thick. This has almost lasted for three months.

Nicole has been married for almost two years, and she just had her first little bundle of Joy. My step-mom, Kelly, is the greatest person in the world. She did EVERYTHING for Nicole, besides wiping her intercourse ing ass. Kelly spent a lot of money, love, care, and time for Nicole. Even if Nicole called at midnight with a craving, Kelly and I would go pick her up, and buy her dinner. Kelly would give Nicole a lot of advice and help. While Nicole's dad and step-mom gave her dirty looks when finding out she was pregnant, my dad, Kelly, and I celebrated and showered her with any little thing she needed or even wanted. Kelly was so happy about the pregnancy. She wasn't able to be there when her son and girlfriend has their two babies, so you could imagine how happy Kelly was. She always treated Nicole as her own daughter, and felt that she could be there for her and the baby. She treated Nicole better than she treated her own son when his girlfriend was pregnant.

Nicole didn't really have a healthy pregnancy; she had false labor into a month of being pregnant, and she was REALLY stressed at home. After a little while, she started to become uncomfortable with Kelly. She felt as though Kelly was shoving advice down her throat, and telling her what to do, and telling her what she's doing is wrong. Which is not true. Kelly basically told her to do whatever she wants, she didn't need to do whatever people were telling her. Well, a month before she was due, she was supposed to go visit her dad in the next state over. That's not really a safe thing to do; what if her water broke while in the car, in the middle of no where? Nicole didn't care, she decided to go anyways with her husband. Well, the night before they left, guess what? Her water broke.

Her sister calls me to tell me what's going on, and then tells me that I get to tell Kelly that Nicole doesn't want her there when the baby is born. When I told her, Kelly seemed calm while I was the one screaming and crying about it. Kelly and I went through a few anxiety attacks, and some mental breakdowns because of this.

Well, months have passed by, Nicole and I have been talking since then, and the relationship between her and Kelly will never be the same. I hate that.
A few days ago, Nicole sent me a message on Myspace saying:
"i miss you.. i wish we could hang out more. i know it sounds terrible and i i am probably too emotional for my own good, but it feel like all this drama is putting space between us. and it's seriously killing me. i wish we were 10 years old again."

I FUCKING WONDER WHY?  SHE NEVER FUCKING TALKS TO ME.

Then she sends me another message saying:
"i sent a birth announcement again. and i don't know. all this bs going on with kelly and the emails you been sending me just makes me not want to have a space anymore. seriously, once i go to arizona i'm not going to have the luxuries of communication anymore so i might as well cut ties now. i mean it doesnt even seem like were friends anymore. and its kinda hard for me to accept. and it may sound childish but i blame kelly 100% for it because her being a gold digger is what started this whole big ugliness between us. it feels to me like she came between us when nothing is supposed to come between us. and you seem to choose her as a best bud over me, which is awesome and i envy you having a good relationship with your step mom. but i don't see myself being in the picture of your life anymore. please dont be hurt by this letter, i just want to be honest."

Tell me, does that sound like a real friend? 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:18:11 AM
Quote from: SUPERKOOL on June 01, 2008, 12:14:24 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
Yes, what kind of beer?
Fuck it, get me some Tequila.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:05 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:18:11 AM
Quote from: SUPERKOOL on June 01, 2008, 12:14:24 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
Yes, what kind of beer?
Fuck it, get me some Tequila.
You're not Mexican enough to handle Tequila... Yet.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:37 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:05 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:18:11 AM
Quote from: SUPERKOOL on June 01, 2008, 12:14:24 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on June 01, 2008, 12:08:45 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:03:42 AM
I cant believe she's doing this.  What kind of a f***ing person is she? 

f***ing this.  I need a god dang beer.
details?
Yes, what kind of beer?
Fuck it, get me some Tequila.
You're not Mexican enough to handle Tequila... Yet.
I'm Irish enough. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:23:01 AM
As if I don't have enough problems at the moment.

I have to avoid an old friend, because if I associate myself with him, I could get in real intercourse ing trouble. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:27:32 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:37 AM

I'm Irish enough. 
Irish?! Those Sally's who couldnt take back their own country!
Pinche gringos!
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:29:40 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:27:32 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:37 AM

I'm Irish enough. 
Irish?! Those Sally's who couldnt take back their own country!
Pinche gringos!
Douche bag. xD
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:31:36 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:29:40 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 12:27:32 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:21:37 AM

I'm Irish enough. 
Irish?! Those Sally's who couldnt take back their own country!
Pinche gringos!
Douche bag. xD

NO U!!
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much intercourse ing poop. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a intercourse ing bullet for her, she was my intercourse ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: DededeCloneChris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:59:31 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
I already cried.  I'm not anymore. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 01:01:35 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
I don't think that matters.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: DededeCloneChris on June 01, 2008, 01:05:03 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 01:01:35 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
I don't think that matters.
Sometimes does, when you're furious, you'll probably write a lot of swears.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 01:06:20 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 01:05:03 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 01:01:35 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
I don't think that matters.
Sometimes does, when you're furious, you'll probably write a lot of swears.
I already swear all the time.  I intercourse ing.. won the award for it. xD
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 01:15:52 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 01:05:03 AM
Quote from: Hero_Of_Time1 on June 01, 2008, 01:01:35 AM
Quote from: wiiboychris on June 01, 2008, 12:56:15 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 12:39:41 AM
This sucks so much f***ing s***. 

Every message I sent to her, and every message that I tried to throw into the air in hopes of her seeing said nothing but "I'm still here for you, and I'll always be here for you."

I've said nothing but good things, things that only said that I love her, and that I always want to be with her, and that I never want to lose her.  I'd take a f***ing bullet for her, she was my f***ing sister.  When we were kids, we cut our hands and slapped them together, so that we'd be sisters forever. 

And then she cuts me off. 
Tell me something, are you crying while typing?
I don't think that matters.
Sometimes does, when you're furious, you'll probably write a lot of swears.
Or blackout. Hehehe. I've done that a few times.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Super on June 01, 2008, 02:18:18 AM
Red, we love you. Don't forget that. D:
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 02:25:28 AM
Quote from: SUPERKOOL on June 01, 2008, 02:18:18 AM
Red, we love you. Don't forget that. D:
Thank you. :3

That made me smile. 

I loves you all, too. <3

And thanks for taking the time to read my problems.  I really do appreciate it. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: SkyMyl on June 01, 2008, 07:42:38 AM
That sucks.

I have no advice here. I'm totally at a loss for words. Sorry. :(

This story reminds me of my sister...a lot. :O
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Doodle on June 01, 2008, 09:37:51 AM
Well, that stinks. I've never really been in a situation like that before. All I can really say is something like "Hope it all works out." So, hope it all works out. :)
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Kilroy on June 01, 2008, 09:42:05 AM
That extremely sucks ;-;

I wish we could have like a Console Sad People thread and then we'd just comfort people :3

We still wub you <3
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: SkyMyl on June 01, 2008, 10:33:48 AM
Quote from: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
I also agree with Olimar. I mean Byte.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Kilroy on June 01, 2008, 11:09:16 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on June 01, 2008, 10:33:48 AM
Quote from: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
I also agree with Olimar. I mean Byte.
Byte > Olimar :|
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: L10 on June 01, 2008, 11:10:23 AM
Quote from: Byte on June 01, 2008, 11:09:16 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on June 01, 2008, 10:33:48 AM
Quote from: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
I also agree with Olimar. I mean Byte.
Lichig0 > Byte > Olimar :|
Why thank you! :)
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Kilroy on June 01, 2008, 11:11:30 AM
Quote from: Lichig0 on June 01, 2008, 11:10:23 AM
Quote from: Byte on June 01, 2008, 11:09:16 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on June 01, 2008, 10:33:48 AM
Quote from: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
I also agree with Olimar. I mean Byte.
Byte > Olimar > Pile of Dog Shit > Most Fanboys > Lichig0 :|
Why thank you! :)
You're EXTREMELY welcome! :D
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: L10 on June 01, 2008, 11:23:57 AM
Quote from: Byte on June 01, 2008, 11:11:30 AM
Quote from: Lichig0 on June 01, 2008, 11:10:23 AM
Quote from: Byte on June 01, 2008, 11:09:16 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on June 01, 2008, 10:33:48 AM
Quote from: ChaosEmeralds7 on June 01, 2008, 10:32:12 AM
Well, unfortunately, I kind of have to agree with Doodle here. All I can really try to suggest here is to try to talk to her in person, if at all possible. Who knows? Try reminding her of that thing with the hands.

And I'm in agreement with Byte too. <3
I also agree with Olimar. I mean Byte.
[/quoteLichig0 > Byte > Olimar
Why thank you! :)
You're EXTREMELY welcome! :D
What are you changing things for. >:(
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: ThePowerOfOne on June 01, 2008, 11:30:23 AM
Tell her to stop being an overly sensitive ninny.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Dawei on June 01, 2008, 11:36:11 AM
Olimar, Lich, shut up and get back on topic.

Anyway, I'm really bad at giving advice in stuff like this, so all I can say is listen to what the other people say. :P :(
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 11:37:07 AM
Quote from: Phaze on June 01, 2008, 11:30:23 AM
Tell her to stop being an overly sensitive ninny.
THANK YOU!  *huggles* Omg thank you.

I just wish all the hormones would intercourse ing leave her brain so she could at LEAST think some-what clearly.

But I'm not going to say anything to her.  I sent her a message saying that my folks are going to drop off all the poop she left here, from when she and her husband were living here, to them today.

And I said that I hope she has a good life. 

That's it.  I want no more of her.  She put me through all kinds of intercourse ing stress, anxiety attacks, and mental breakdowns from all of this.  She blames Kelly, when it is in fact her fault.

I hope she realizes that some day. 
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 11:38:31 AM
Quote from: Dawei on June 01, 2008, 11:36:11 AM
Olimar, Lich, shut up and get back on topic.

Anyway, I'm really bad at giving advice in stuff like this, so all I can say is listen to what the other people say. :P :(
That's good advice. xD 

Oi.  Suckage, suckage, suckage...

Imma head to bed.

*huggles* I luves you all.  Thanks so much for taking the time to listen to my problems. :3

I really do appreciate it. <333333
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: LinkXLR on June 01, 2008, 11:54:41 AM
All I can say is sorry that happened.

I know what it feels like to lose a friend. Hope things get better.
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: DededeCloneChris on June 01, 2008, 11:57:20 AM
Quote from: Redpaige13 on June 01, 2008, 11:38:31 AM
Quote from: Dawei on June 01, 2008, 11:36:11 AM
Olimar, Lich, shut up and get back on topic.

Anyway, I'm really bad at giving advice in stuff like this, so all I can say is listen to what the other people say. :P :(
That's good advice. xD 

Oi.  Suckage, suckage, suckage...

Imma head to bed.

*huggles* I luves you all.  Thanks so much for taking the time to listen to my problems. :3

I really do appreciate it. <333333
And for a commemoration...SMILEY ATTACK!

;D :) 8) :O :P ;) ???? :) :'( :D ;) :P 8) :( ............ :| ;)
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: L10 on June 01, 2008, 12:55:24 PM
Quote from: Dawei on June 01, 2008, 11:36:11 AM
Byte, Lich, shut up and get back on topic.

Anyway, I'm really bad at giving advice in stuff like this, so all I can say is listen to what the other people say. :P :(
fixed



Oh, ummm, all I can say is try to talk to her in person...It might make her feel better if you go to her just to talk or something....idk I'm bad at giving advice...
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: Tupin on June 01, 2008, 01:40:59 PM
That sucks, I am really sorry that it happened to you.  :(

I noticed you changed your avatar. Is it supposed to be your former best friend?
Title: Re: I lost my friend
Post by: extraz on June 01, 2008, 03:32:28 PM
well in times like this I always say that it's best to just forget and forgive...but what do I know....I haven't had a friend in over 10 fragging years....and I use the word fragging.....wtf..