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Generally Speaking => Power On => Topic started by: Allegretto on July 03, 2008, 01:20:53 AM

Title: A friend in need.
Post by: Allegretto on July 03, 2008, 01:20:53 AM
As of tonight a friend who I held quite dear has suddenly began acting very strange.

He has been messaging me saying things such as how much he hates the world, and how weak human beings are, and how he has never truly liked or loved anyone but hates them all.

He is being a completely diffrent person and it seems to have come out of no where.

Usually he is a care free happy individual but as of now he just seems like he has been shrouded in blackness. I don't know how to get to him, to make him open his eyes to the friends he has.

I truly don't know what to do.

What would everyone here do in a situation like this?
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Triforce_Luigi on July 03, 2008, 06:44:19 AM
Okay, hang on, someone dear to YOU is generally happy? :P

And to answer the question, I'd probably notify someone who could help him, such as a parent or legal guardian, or perhaps a psychiatrist.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Ugawa on July 03, 2008, 07:02:18 AM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on July 03, 2008, 06:44:19 AM
Okay, hang on, someone dear to YOU is generally happy? :P

And to answer the question, I'd probably notify someone who could help him, such as a parent or legal guardian, or perhaps a psychiatrist.
Ditto.

It also will probably help to go to him in person and comfort him instead of talking on the computer.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Allegretto on July 03, 2008, 01:30:35 PM
Quote from: Triforce_Luigi on July 03, 2008, 06:44:19 AM
Okay, hang on, someone dear to YOU is generally happy? :P

And to answer the question, I'd probably notify someone who could help him, such as a parent or legal guardian, or perhaps a psychiatrist.
:( :( :(
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: ThePowerOfOne on July 03, 2008, 01:44:56 PM
Exorcism D:







I dunno. Tell him to stop being a vagina-y and deal with life. Short but sweet  :)
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Riosan on July 03, 2008, 02:17:32 PM
One of my friends acts like this. Every so often, he makes a scene about how he hates the world, and says stuff about how he doesn't find things fun or make him happy anymore. It's really annoying.

Just tell him to cheer up, or hang out with him. If I was depressed, I'd feel better being with friends that care than being alone.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Wolfman on July 03, 2008, 02:51:39 PM
Make him feel like he's needed, hang out, and keep in touch.

If it persists (as in weeks) , tell a parent or guardian.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: DededeCloneChris on July 03, 2008, 02:56:57 PM
Now that IS being emo.

I only have one solution though, and that is Psychology.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Silverhawk79 on July 03, 2008, 02:58:14 PM
Hang out with him, tell him you care about him, and make sure he doesn't get worse. He could an hero. >.>
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Silly_Penguin on July 03, 2008, 03:20:43 PM
I'de say to try and spend more time with them, tell them how that's not true. And i guess overall, making a point to show them that you really care about them. If they still continue to feel the same way, tell their parents/guardians, or someone like a guidance councilor or psychiatrist. Just someone who could have better advice on how to help. I hope that your friend feels better soon.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: JrDude on July 03, 2008, 03:23:05 PM
Maybe he's lonely. Does he have a girlfriend?
If no, has he EVER had a girlfriend?
If no, get him one.

Quote from: wiiboychris on July 03, 2008, 02:56:57 PM
Now that IS being emo.

I only have one solution though, and that is Psychology.
This calls for PsychoYoshi!
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Zovistograt on July 03, 2008, 03:27:48 PM
Tell him to watch a slice-of-life comedy anime.  That always cheers me up when I'm sad.


...


If he's not into that kind of thing, maybe...err...crap, I just realized, all of my happy tools are Japanese :O
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Nayrman on July 04, 2008, 08:35:41 AM
Just hold it for now and observe. Everyone gets emo at some point, but if it's not a big deal it'll pass. If it lasts a few days then you should share it with a parent and such.
And check your friends arms...just in case (I'm serious about that)
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Vaatix on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Kilroy on July 04, 2008, 09:54:27 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Wouldn't you just kill him or something?
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: ThePowerOfOne on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: SkyMyl on July 04, 2008, 09:56:11 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
Can you fix homophobics?
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Kilroy on July 04, 2008, 09:59:22 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on July 04, 2008, 09:56:11 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
Can you fix homophobics?
You can't be fixed, MYL.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: SkyMyl on July 04, 2008, 10:00:36 AM
Quote from: Byte on July 04, 2008, 09:59:22 AM
Quote from: MasterYoungLink on July 04, 2008, 09:56:11 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
Can you fix homophobics?
You can't be fixed, MYL.
Silly Byte...

I got over that a Month ago.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on July 04, 2008, 11:20:16 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
I'm not broken.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Zies on July 04, 2008, 11:21:54 AM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:20:16 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
I'm not broken.
...That's what they all say...
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Macawmoses on July 04, 2008, 11:28:55 AM
No, no. Vaati makes emos kill themselves.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Tupin on July 04, 2008, 11:34:27 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:28:55 AM
No, no. Vaati makes emos kill themselves.
Genius does too, he just does it a lot quicker.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on July 04, 2008, 11:38:19 AM
Quote from: Zies on July 04, 2008, 11:21:54 AM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:20:16 AM
Quote from: Phaze on July 04, 2008, 09:54:55 AM
Quote from: VaatixGanon on July 04, 2008, 09:52:08 AM
Let me talk to him. I'm notoriously good with emo people.
Then fix Blaziken.
I'm not broken.
...That's what they all say...
You're more broken than I am.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Macawmoses on July 04, 2008, 11:42:49 AM
Zies ain't broke, he is amazing.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on July 04, 2008, 11:44:02 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:42:49 AM
Zies ain't broke, he is amazing.
Then you're the broken one.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Riosan on July 04, 2008, 11:46:46 AM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:44:02 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:42:49 AM
Zies ain't broke, he is amazing.
Then you're the broken one.

NO U
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: えっちーせんぱい on July 04, 2008, 11:52:02 AM
Quote from: Riosan on July 04, 2008, 11:46:46 AM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:44:02 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:42:49 AM
Zies ain't broke, he is amazing.
Then you're the broken one.

NO U

NO U
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: LinkXLR on July 04, 2008, 12:21:27 PM
Stop emulating games and start hanging out with your friend NAO.


In all seriousness.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Kilroy on July 04, 2008, 12:43:11 PM
Quote from: Tuppyluver1 on July 04, 2008, 11:34:27 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:28:55 AM
No, no. Vaati makes emos kill themselves.
Genius does too, he just does it a lot quicker.
They both drag it out, so they can get the maximum amount of laughs, I though.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Allegretto on July 04, 2008, 01:44:26 PM
Quote from: JrDude on July 03, 2008, 03:23:05 PM
Maybe he's lonely. Does he have a girlfriend?
If no, has he EVER had a girlfriend?
If no, get him one.

Quote from: wiiboychris on July 03, 2008, 02:56:57 PM
Now that IS being emo.

I only have one solution though, and that is Psychology.
This calls for PsychoYoshi!
He has a girlfriend, He says he hates her just like every other human being, I said cheer up he said intercourse  off, I said try being around someone who cares, he said "I hate everyone exept for my sister, but she ditched me for her boyfriend"

He's a loser now

Says who it is in spoiler box  :robottongue:

[spoiler]Its Magnumsonic[/spoiler]
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Riosan on July 04, 2008, 07:38:41 PM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:52:02 AM
Quote from: Riosan on July 04, 2008, 11:46:46 AM
Quote from: Blaziken on July 04, 2008, 11:44:02 AM
Quote from: mackormoses on July 04, 2008, 11:42:49 AM
Zies ain't broke, he is amazing.
Then you're the broken one.

NO U

NO U

NO U
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: britneymahboy on July 04, 2008, 07:46:09 PM
Tell him to let his hair grow, dye it black, and cut it in a bold style; he might also want to start investing in girl's apparel.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: BOSSNIG on July 04, 2008, 08:22:03 PM
Tell him to cut himself. It makes you feel better.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Allegretto on July 04, 2008, 09:48:46 PM
Quote from: Darklink on July 04, 2008, 08:22:03 PM
Tell him to cut himself. It makes you feel better.
I will tell him thanks to everyone who tried to help

:robottongue:
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Omega12 on July 04, 2008, 09:54:19 PM
Hit him over the head and make him talk to vaatix.

He isnt as mean as you might think.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Chaos on July 04, 2008, 09:59:05 PM
Well, I'll try to help you out since I care about others.

Don't lose contact with him. That's the first thing you shouldn't do. If you lose connection with them, that could make things so much worse. Then he won't think that anyone will talk to him and will think that more people are cold hearted. That leads me into another thing. Spend time with him. Even though you might not want to, at least try to. Get a group of friends and spend time with him. Last thing but most important, just talk to him about it. Face to face though, can't really see what he's doing over the internet. Hope that kidna helps.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: thunderhero4 on July 04, 2008, 10:04:58 PM
I can try to negociate with him :| Its one of my 3 only skills :P
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Allegretto on July 04, 2008, 10:06:15 PM
Quote from: Omega12 on July 04, 2008, 09:54:19 PM
Hit him over the head and make him talk to vaatix.

He isnt as mean as you might think.
Not sure who said this but im sure it was in this thread somewhere

Vaati makes emo's kill themselvs

Genius does it to but he does it faster.
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: thunderhero4 on July 04, 2008, 10:07:19 PM
Quote from: Allegretto on July 04, 2008, 10:06:15 PM
Quote from: Omega12 on July 04, 2008, 09:54:19 PM
Hit him over the head and make him talk to vaatix.

He isnt as mean as you might think.
Not sure who said this but im sure it was in this thread somewhere

Vaati makes emo's kill themselvs

Genius does it to but he does it faster.
Is he on? If not I have his number...
Title: Re: A friend in need.
Post by: Java on July 04, 2008, 11:25:21 PM
I think you have all forgotten about this thread:
http://forums.projectfcd.com/index.php?topic=25582.0 (http://forums.projectfcd.com/index.php?topic=25582.0)