I haven't. But I'm only 14. I think it's kind of pointless, right now anyways. I'm fine listening to everybody else's relationship problems. :P
Once in 3rd grade.
Most of the girls here are sluts, whores, or stupid, so yeah.
No, I never have.
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 01:25:12 PM
No, I never have.
And if your confused sexuality keeps up, you never will.
Yeah, I still have one. The same one I've had for almost three years. Plan to tie the knot after college, or shortly before finishing.
Nah, I don't like being exclusive.
Nope.
I don't have the nerve to ask someone out.
On top of that, I don't really like anyone at the moment.
Quote from: Java_Java on September 04, 2008, 01:40:05 PM
I don't have the nerve to ask someone out.
I never really understood the reasoning behind that kind of excuse, considering you don't get anywhere without asking anyway, and you don't exactly have much to lose.
I've had 1, nearly been single for 4 years. No joke, I keep getting screwed over every time I go after a girl, hahaha.
They always turn into dumbasses, and ditch the nice guy (me) for the poop hole that treats them like poop xD
btw, prom pictures:
these pictures are a year and a half old btw
Well, the first one I found, is when we were doing a community service thing for school:
(http://i2.photobucket.com/albums/y26/paintba11er13/KatandKellenThumbsUpsmaller.jpg)
Well, it also seems that I don't have any in my photobucket, so I'll just link to the myspace pictures...
Left to right: Me, Kat (my date), Alisa (best bud's ex-girlfriend, who he was going out with at the time), and Anthony (best bud)
http://a666.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/15/l_c2f6855459a705d6f41826624e82b389.jpg
Bottom: Brittany, Jason (good buddy of mine), Molly
Top: Kat, Me, Alisa, Anthony, and I forgot the other kid's name.
http://a966.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/27/l_62e2dfa3c487afe10228d00cc18dc7e5.jpg
and this picture, jason was the only one who saw it coming... obviously. THINKING POSE, YAAAA
http://a566.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/images01/27/l_06fc342037fdfa9bc712929ef5099705.jpg
Yeah, but she looked much better with straight hair and not pulled back.
BTW, one more picture to show that I'm asian, hahaha
This was... 3 years ago? ALMOST 3 years ago. Back when I had long hair and was a little fatty boy.
http://b1.ac-images.myspacecdn.com/00708/11/41/708671411_l.jpg
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
*I did have a female friend back in new york city and we did some...things... every now and then (actually was mostly everyday); she called me her boyfriend but I never really agreed to it for various reasons.
No, and i'm almost 16...:(
No. And again, I've made out with several chicks, should it count...
...I WANT TO KNOW WHAT IT FEELS LIKE! =(
Yeah.
Quote from: Kaz on September 04, 2008, 01:41:16 PM
Quote from: Java_Java on September 04, 2008, 01:40:05 PM
I don't have the nerve to ask someone out.
I never really understood the reasoning behind that kind of excuse, considering you don't get anywhere without asking anyway, and you don't exactly have much to lose.
I know it's a stupid reason.
I guess I have a fear of rejection. :-\
I've had a few in the past. They're just a pain in the ass, and I end up having to spend my money on them. I've decided I'm never getting married, and never going to have kids. I want to keep all the money I earn to myself.
Quote from: Masterofsword on September 04, 2008, 02:33:50 PM
I've had a few in the past. They're just a pain in the ass, and I end up having to spend my money on them. I've decided I'm never getting married, and never going to have kids. I want to keep all the money I earn to myself.
olol
Quote from: Kaz on September 04, 2008, 01:34:38 PM
Yeah, I still have one. The same one I've had for almost three years. Plan to tie the knot after college, or shortly before finishing.
Good for you Kaz :)
I had two, one couldn't have a boyfriend at her age (14, fgs I've seen worse) and one dumped me for this vagina cleaning devicebag. D:
No....
hell, I'm lucky if a girl talks to me for more than 2 minutes...for some reason girls seem to really hate me and it's rather depressing
Quote from: Masterofsword on September 04, 2008, 02:33:50 PM
I've had a few in the past. They're just a pain in the ass, and I end up having to spend my money on them.
Sounds like someone's butthurt.
Your own fault if you spend all your money on them.
Quote from: Java_Java on September 04, 2008, 02:26:33 PM
I guess I have a fear of rejection. :-\
It didn't stop me :)
Hmm... I have to start spitting game though, college is back, hahaha. If I don't make a move, who will? xD
Quote from: Kaz on September 04, 2008, 02:59:12 PM
Quote from: Masterofsword on September 04, 2008, 02:33:50 PM
I've had a few in the past. They're just a pain in the ass, and I end up having to spend my money on them.
Sounds like someone's butthurt.
Your own fault if you spend all your money on them.
I don't wanna give someone else even a penny of my money. Yes, I know I'm greedy.
Quote from: Blaze-San on September 04, 2008, 02:12:09 PM
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
Online relationships are just stupid. You're not "with" anyone, and you've never met them.
No. I was the only openly gay guy at my school my senior year, except for the flaming freshmen we had, but I don't touch that poop.
There's plenty of potential here on campus though.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on September 04, 2008, 03:45:22 PM
No. I was the only openly gay guy at my school my senior year, except for the flaming freshmen we had, but I don't touch that s***.
There's plenty of potential here on campus though.
There were three at my high school last year. The three of them were "bullied" my the FCA type ppl in my school, but at least everyone else were cool with them X_X:;
I guess that assumes you've never had a relationship then?
Quote from: Nayrman on September 04, 2008, 02:52:03 PM
No....
hell, I'm lucky if a girl talks to me for more than 2 minutes...for some reason girls seem to really hate me and it's rather depressing
I hear ya dude... :(
Nope. I've been asked out once though (..i hate to say this since he's my friend...but...most awkward im conversation ever...), although i turned him down since i kinda don't think i'm ready for that type of relationship, and i don't really like him that way (plus i don't want to have that type of conversation with my parents XD).
Er... i have a crush on someone if that's something... (not gonna ask them out or tell them any time soon though..) >_>...
Quote from: Omega12 on September 04, 2008, 01:24:07 PM
Most of the girls here are sluts and/or whores
Why are you talking about Blauki? ;D 8)
Quote from: Nayrman on September 04, 2008, 03:49:50 PM
I guess that assumes you've never had a relationship then?
Not a proper one.
I don't talk to people much, because I move so much, but since This is my 2nd year (New record) at the same school I can actually talk to people, but who still no one really talks to me except my friends. I'm just the guy with he big nose and glasses.
Quote from: Riosan on September 04, 2008, 03:33:09 PM
Quote from: Blaze-San on September 04, 2008, 02:12:09 PM
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
Online relationships are just stupid. You're not "with" anyone, and you've never met them.
I'm gonna have to agree...
I'll have been with my current girlfriend for 6 months on September 20th.
'Tis win tbh.
why must I be constantly reminded of my loneliness
Quote from: Commissar Torgo on September 04, 2008, 06:19:59 PM
why must I be constantly reminded of my loneliness
cuz humanity is cruel :'(
Quote from: Java_Java on September 04, 2008, 04:42:28 PM
Quote from: Riosan on September 04, 2008, 03:33:09 PM
Quote from: Blaze-San on September 04, 2008, 02:12:09 PM
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
Online relationships are just stupid. You're not "with" anyone, and you've never met them.
I'm gonna have to agree...
Yeah, me too.
No offense, but I think that's just sad...
I'd rather be afraid to ask a girl out(like I am :P) then have an internet one.
No, I have not. D:
Quote from: Riosan on September 04, 2008, 03:33:09 PM
Quote from: Blaze-San on September 04, 2008, 02:12:09 PM
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
Online relationships are just stupid. You're not "with" anyone, and you've never met them.
Strangely, I know of a couple online relationships that have worked out and become real ones.
2. One was a total idiot, dumped. This one has been with me for 14 months, I believe.
I hate how all my friends can get Girl friends, but I can't... :( :( :(
Quote from: Triforceman22 on September 04, 2008, 06:50:47 PM
I hate how all my friends can get Girl friends, but I can't... :( :( :(
Don't remind me X_X;;
Never, and I'm a freshman in college.
;___________;
Quote from: Kaz on September 04, 2008, 06:41:40 PM
Quote from: Riosan on September 04, 2008, 03:33:09 PM
Quote from: Blaze-San on September 04, 2008, 02:12:09 PM
IRL: No*
Online: Three, my most recent is my third, and I'm still with her.
Online relationships are just stupid. You're not "with" anyone, and you've never met them.
Strangely, I know of a couple online relationships that have worked out and become real ones.
Yeah, like your own
Quote from: Mario583 on September 04, 2008, 04:20:51 PM
Quote from: Omega12 on September 04, 2008, 01:24:07 PM
Most of the girls here are sluts and/or whores
Why are you talking about Blauki? ;D 8)
Who's Blauki?
Also I'm no slut or whore.
Quote from: Silverhawk79 on September 04, 2008, 06:54:15 PM
Never, and I'm a freshman in college.
;___________;
We're more similar than I thought X_X;;
I've never even gotten a yes to a date....hopefully you've at least gotten that far >_>
Durrr.
It's just I haven't found the right one yet. ;-;
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 07:01:34 PM
Durrr.
It's just I haven't found the right one yet. ;-;
I still love you <3
waiting till im sixteen. That way i can show off my porcha i get my birthday (dad says he'll give it to me for 16th bithday).
Ok, true story. I was 12 when I got this girlfriend. I got along with her really well, and we ended up having sex. I still haven't gotten over the fact that I had sex with her, and I dumped her about 7 months ago. I feel pretty bad myself about the whole thing, having sex at such a young age. I'm afraid I'll still be bothered by it when I'm older.
Quote from: Daft Pink on September 04, 2008, 08:53:45 PM
Ok, true story. I was 12 when I got this girlfriend. I got along with her really well, and we ended up having sex. I still haven't gotten over the fact that I had sex with her, and I dumped her about 7 months ago. I feel pretty bad myself about the whole thing, having sex at such a young age. I'm afraid I'll still be bothered by it when I'm older.
Don't. You only live once, and since poop happens, just move on and don't let it get to you.
Quote from: Daft Pink on September 04, 2008, 08:53:45 PM
Ok, true story. I was 12 when I got this girlfriend. I got along with her really well, and we ended up having sex. I still haven't gotten over the fact that I had sex with her, and I dumped her about 7 months ago. I feel pretty bad myself about the whole thing, having sex at such a young age. I'm afraid I'll still be bothered by it when I'm older.
Learn from your mistakes, do not regret them.
Wisdom comes in many disguises.
Quote from: captainjacksparrow on September 04, 2008, 08:47:12 PM
waiting till im sixteen. That way i can show off my porcha i get my birthday (dad says he'll give it to me for 16th bithday).
Porsche?
Did I ever tell you that you're a bastard?
spoiled ninny getting a Porsche for your 16th birthday... lol, I was intercourse ing ecstatic to get a 98 civic from my grandma when I was 17 and had already been working over a year
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on September 04, 2008, 03:45:22 PM
No. I was the only openly gay guy at my school my senior year, except for the flaming freshmen we had, but I don't touch that s***.
There's plenty of potential here on campus though.
O_O... I thought you were joking when you said shirtless is quite okay.
Wow, I took a picture of my boxers for a gay man, even if it was a joke to get reactions from people, hahaha
Oh well. At least you're not trying to hide it >,>... it annoys me when people hide poop.
Quote from: Daft Pink on September 04, 2008, 08:53:45 PM
Ok, true story. I was 12 when I got this girlfriend. I got along with her really well, and we ended up having sex. I still haven't gotten over the fact that I had sex with her, and I dumped her about 7 months ago. I feel pretty bad myself about the whole thing, having sex at such a young age. I'm afraid I'll still be bothered by it when I'm older.
It is a bit strange, but you need to get over it. Don't feel bad about it just because society has a problem with it. What society doesn't know won't hurt them, anyway.
Don't live for the past, and especially not regret. Live for the moment and the future.
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
SCORE!!!
lol jay kayy...
btw, I'm the reason for the leaning towards the guys. You're all welcome.
Quote from: ninja on September 04, 2008, 10:03:11 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
SCORE!!!
lol jay kayy...
btw, I'm the reason for the leaning towards the guys. You're all welcome.
...Ninja I'm PRETTY sure you know this.
And.. >_>.. Erm.... Not really, you see theres this guy at school. 83;;;;;
Quote from: mackormoses on September 04, 2008, 08:44:03 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 07:01:34 PM
Durrr.
It's just I haven't found the right one yet. ;-;
I still love you <3
What the intercourse are you talking about? :robotindifferent:
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
Omgsh me too O:
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:16:04 PM
Quote from: mackormoses on September 04, 2008, 08:44:03 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 07:01:34 PM
Durrr.
It's just I haven't found the right one yet. ;-;
I still love you <3
What the intercourse are you talking about? :robotindifferent:
he has a crush on you, teehee
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:19:35 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
Omgsh me too O:
OH REALLY? xD YAY! I thought the girls on this forum would be creeping out. @A@;
...
Oh wait. Are you talking about the being bi thing. Or the being with someone for a short period of a time? xD;;
Both lol
I'm more guy-loving than girl-loving though. It has to be a special girl.
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:19:35 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
Omgsh me too O:
Jackpot.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:13:10 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 04, 2008, 10:03:11 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 09:53:38 PM
Hmm.
</Is bi>
Well not exactly. Either. xD;;;
I really don't care weather if its a girl/boy. It all depends on their personality for me.
But I'm more leaning towards guys. I would say its like a 60/40...
I mean, I dated a few girls before..Well for a short time xD;. But I haven't gone out with a guy. And most of the time when one asks me out, they... Go really fast. Like approach/ask too early. @A@; And suddenly.. So I just kinda... Stroll away and ignore them. @w@;;;
But I have never been "with" a person for more then a week or two. @A@ But since its so short. I don't really count it as having a bf/gf.
SCORE!!!
lol jay kayy...
btw, I'm the reason for the leaning towards the guys. You're all welcome.
...Ninja I'm PRETTY sure you know this.
And.. >_>.. Erm.... Not really, you see theres this guy at school. 83;;;;;
lolDx
pfft, and he looks like neenja?! xP
BTW- to everyone that doesn't know me... no, I'm not a sexual harassment panda >,>... I love sexual jokes, however.
Quote from: ninja on September 04, 2008, 10:03:11 PM
lolDx
pfft, and he looks like neenja?! xP
BTW- to everyone that doesn't know me... no, I'm not a sexual harassment panda >,>... I love sexual jokes, however.
>.> You wish.
No, you're not a sexual harassment panda. 83.. You're pedobear. >_>
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:25:03 PM
Both lol
I'm more guy-loving than girl-loving though. It has to be a special girl.
Ohh! Yeah. Indeed. Guys > Girls. Lol. DX Omg, most girls are so annoying. xD;; Dating wise. Guys are so relaxed and stuff.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:30:34 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 04, 2008, 10:03:11 PM
lolDx
pfft, and he looks like neenja?! xP
BTW- to everyone that doesn't know me... no, I'm not a sexual harassment panda >,>... I love sexual jokes, however.
>.> You wish.
No, you're not a sexual harassment panda. 83.. You're pedobear. >_>
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:25:03 PM
Both lol
I'm more guy-loving than girl-loving though. It has to be a special girl.
Ohh! Yeah. Indeed. Guys > Girls. Lol. DX Omg, most girls are so annoying. xD;; Dating wise. Guys are so relaxed and stuff.
Yep. And girls get a little
too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:25:03 PM
Yep. And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:
Indeed. nwn! I agree with you 100%.
83
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
How can that be a bad thing? >_>
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:
Might be the right
amount of attention, but it's usually not the right
kind of attention.
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
Yep. And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:
lol, apparently not me. The last time I was hung out with a girl I thought was cute (my best bud's girlfriend's best friend), she said I was too quiet. Me, quiet? lawl
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:
Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.
<,< anyways, the guys that get the girls are the poop holes that the only kind of attention they give is the wrong kind like you said >,>
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
How can that be a bad thing? >_>
Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.
Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:43:39 PM
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
How can that be a bad thing? >_>
Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.
Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.
I swear we're sisters from another mister. O:
Yeah the guys I go after never even joke about sex around me. Like 80% of guys do realize that the mention of sex could ruin a relationship.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:43:39 PM
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
How can that be a bad thing? >_>
Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;
Oh, that's what you both mean by "healthy relationship". What I consider a healthy relationship is much different (a whole lot more relaxed), but I am pretty obsessed with it.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:43:39 PM
But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot.
Based on my experiences, I find that rather strange. I'd guess either you're lucky ending up with guys who aren't like that, the ones you have gone for don't openly say they care about it, or there's some regional cultural difference.
Well, not that I ever have nor ever want to date a guy, but I've overheard tons of things happening in hallways and stuff at school.
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:49:37 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 10:43:39 PM
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Quote from: Pixie on September 04, 2008, 10:33:38 PM
And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.
How can that be a bad thing? >_>
Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:36:25 PM
Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.
Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.
I swear we're sisters from another mister. O:
Yeah the guys I go after never even joke about sex around me. Like 80% of guys do realize that the mention of sex could ruin a relationship.
O: /glomps.
I never had a sister before. 8D
</pushes the 3 year old half sister away>
Yeah. I mean, actually. Alot of guys joke around me. xD; But its cause I joke around too, but its not a sense were its really serious. Its like ridiculous stuff, such as humping a donkey or something.. xDDD.
So yeah, but indeed. Most of the time when I have almost dated a guy. They don't joke about sex 1on1 with me. So you know they kinda wanna be serious about it. Well... Once again. Stereotypically, from my own experiences.
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 10:57:45 PM
Oh, that's what you both mean by "healthy relationship". What I consider a healthy relationship is much different (a whole lot more relaxed), but I am pretty obsessed with it.
Yeah. Well for most girls it's like so. DX;
And well, yeah if its like in a relaxed environment. And like, if you're obsessed with... Like.. Hm.. Holding hands/Cuddling. That's fine. But things like always having to call every 10 mins or always having to tell her you're going out or something...Gets annoying. DX!
Quote from: BluakiBased on my experiences, I find that rather strange. I'd guess either you're lucky ending up with guys who aren't like that, the ones you have gone for don't openly say they care about it, or there's some regional cultural difference.
Well, not that I ever have nor ever want to date a guy, but I've overheard tons of things happening in hallways and stuff at school.
Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something. But when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<
So yeah, I just wait. And avoid those that I feel threaten from and such. But usually, I don't really open myself till after a few weeks. So I'm pretty careful and whatnot. :\
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 11:10:58 PM
Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something.
Nah, doesn't offend me at all. I typically don't end up as friends with those kind of people.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 11:10:58 PMBut when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<
Yeah, most girls I've seen at school do seem that way.
I've noticed most boys have a stereotype that basically says "Any boy who doesn't act perverted and/or sex-craved is gay", meh.
Also, I have a slight feeling that you're thinking I'm a girl. I can understand why you might think that, but I'm not. >_>
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 11:36:16 PM
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 11:10:58 PM
Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something.
Nah, doesn't offend me at all. I typically don't end up as friends with those kind of people.
Quote from: Viveeanne on September 04, 2008, 11:10:58 PMBut when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<
Yeah, most girls I've seen at school do seem that way.
I've noticed most boys have a stereotype that basically says "Any boy who doesn't act perverted and/or sex-craved is gay", meh.
Also, I have a slight feeling that you're thinking I'm a girl. I can understand why you might think that, but I'm not. >_>
Yeah. Its a really hard world. >.<;; Of all the peer pressure and crap. But thats something everyone just needs to learn/deal with and ignore the pressure.
Oh. No. I know. nwn I'm a little stalker. 83 And check everyone's profiles. But I suppose thats a good feeling, you thinking I'm treating you like a girl. Considering you like to be called like so? I don't know. >.< Sorry if that sounded ass-liked. @A@ I.. Don't know how to put it in the correct words without making a fool of myself.
Yes.
... No D=
I fear rejection... Even though I get no where without asking anyway, I feel better not asking then asking and getting rejected...
Quote from: Zovistograt on September 04, 2008, 01:37:32 PM
Nah, I don't like being exclusive.
I used to just go for serious relationships but that can wait until later in life. Had a relationship for almost a year a long while back and then she went to Florida for the summer to live with her mom.. I even planned my whole vacation around seeing my family down there around when I could stay at her house for a week, which did work. Despite all the chemistry we had in every area.. I guess just being away from me for a bit was enough distance to end things. My last relationship was just over a year but I ended that one myself. Things got really outta hand.. I was overwhelmed by stress from this and that, mostly her, my friends all saw me as being really unhappy and stressed.. and ultimately the relationship dissolved and for months me and her didn't talk. The relationship was very successful for a while as a serious relationship but it still fell apart. Months later we got talking again. She had another b/f for a short period of time but we started acting like we were back together when I told her I just couldn't handle such a relationship like that again so soon. Well.. it's hard not to act like how we used to be.. in every aspect.. so.. I dunno what to do.. but we fight a lot still.. and.. who knows..
My experiences have shifted me towards not wanting to be exclusive either anymore.. wink wink.. hahaha. >_>
I just can't go through another crazy relationship.. I'm so dedicated and things fall apart one way or another.. so I'm just going to wait until it seems right again..until I think something can work.. even if it is someone new. In the meantime.. I'm happy.. um.. hanging out with friends. ^_^ Is the subtle innuendo in that last sentence just obvious enough to get through? xD But no, really, I love being close with friends just like cuddling and watching a movie and hanging all over each other. It's so relaxed and not awkward or anything and everyone knows how everyone feels so no boundaries get pushed or anything and every once in a while something might spark and it's just spontaneous kinda and there's just this incredible closeness and freedom and realness about it. I don't wanna change who I am.. and that's who I am right now. If I can't dedicate enough time to my friends like I like to now.. I get pretty lonely and upset and it builds up after time (note: this didn't happen much with the almost year-long relationship; she wouldn't get jealous if we're all pal-ing around with friends and all cuddled up watching a movie with a gang or somethin'; last relationship had huge issues...). I can't give all or most of my attention to just one person; I'm saying "no" to everyone else this way.. and things have usually been awkward when I'm in a relationship and I'm with that person around friends.. it's almost like one or the other. Right now, I choose friends.. and for the record, the friendships I have are for the most part not all that sexual.. but some are occasionally, haha.
Did I answer the question? Yeah, the short answer is.. yes, I've had a few, and yes, I've had a few more if experiences count (on both courts/teams/sides/genders.. oh my)! xD
Yes if being with a girl like 24/7 in Kindergarten counts...We lost communication pretty much because we were never in the same class until 7 years later
Quote from: ninja on September 04, 2008, 09:36:02 PM
O_O... I thought you were joking when you said shirtless is quite okay.
Wow, I took a picture of my boxers for a gay man, even if it was a joke to get reactions from people, hahaha
Oh well. At least you're not trying to hide it >,>... it annoys me when people hide poop.
Oh the joys of anonymity on the internet. :')
Once.....in the 7th grade. Things didnt turn out well a year later.... :O
I've had one official girlfriend, but that was doomed, in the least for an obvious reason, and I've had flirtatious flings with several. About two years ago I had a boyfriend, but he moved away. And I've flirted with a few guys since then, but that was mostly to unnerve them.
I don't know why I never noticed this post before:
Quote from: Omega12 on September 04, 2008, 01:33:15 PM
Quote from: Bluaki on September 04, 2008, 01:25:12 PM
No, I never have.
And if your confused sexuality keeps up, you never will.
Confused sexuality? I like girls, not boys, and I've never once said otherwise.
Yesss
Iv had maybe 3 relationshipss all longg term
Firstt lasted 2 years
second lasted 8 months
Third *Short* Lasted a month
4th, iv been with her for maybe a year/10 months
Going good
gone through alot of heartbreak
became kind of emoo
Still ::)