His mom apparently walked in and stopped him, then took him to the hospital. I'm even more frustrated on the fact that he himself didn't tell me, but one of my other friends did.
I don't know what the hell to do now.
dangit. :-\
Get off here and spend time with him.
You smack him in the head and say, "What, your too chicken to actually live your freaking life, huh? Alright, if you REALLY want to die, I'll be happy to do it for you, but it SURE AS FUCKING HELL isn't going to be by your own hand DAMN IT!"
I said that to one of MY friends trying to do that. Never even tried again. :)
Quote from: Tuppyluver1 on January 31, 2008, 05:48:16 PM
Get off here and spend time with him.
I've got no way to go to his house :/.
Also he has no phone.
his mom's the only one with a phone and I don't got that number.:/
I don't know if he even knows that I know.
My best friend did that once.
I didn't let her out of my sight for 3 days.
Literally.
Quote from: David2314 on January 31, 2008, 06:00:12 PM
My best friend did that once.
I didn't let her out of my sight for 3 days.
Literally.
Yeah, one of my friends is kinda doing that right now. She's the one who told me.
I honestly didn't expect him of all people to do something like this. He just isn't that type of person.
that sucks... spend time with them, get them to rehab. make sure they don't even think of doing it again, but have them remember that they DID try to do it, and have them remember how selfish it is.
Ouch :( My ex tried to do that too many times (thank God I don't have to deal with her anymore).
Quote from: Lotos on January 31, 2008, 06:03:46 PM
Ouch :( My ex tried to do that too many times (thank God I don't have to deal with her anymore).
a girl who thought she was my ex (because she thought I was dead) tried to off herself, when I never even liked her, or went out with her in the first place.
It's also bad when people think that you're involved in something that you weren't involved in. :-\
Quote from: Jono2 on January 31, 2008, 06:02:45 PM
that sucks... spend time with them, get them to rehab. make sure they don't even think of doing it again, but have them remember that they DID try to do it, and have them remember how selfish it is.
Well, I doubt he'll go to rehab, but i'm attempting to remind him that he does have friends.
Quote from: Jono2 on January 31, 2008, 06:07:15 PM
Quote from: Lotos on January 31, 2008, 06:03:46 PM
Ouch :( My ex tried to do that too many times (thank God I don't have to deal with her anymore).
a girl who thought she was my ex (because she thought I was dead) tried to off herself, when I never even liked her, or went out with her in the first place.
It's also bad when people think that you're involved in something that you weren't involved in. :-\
Wow. Got nothing to say to that except wow.
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:08:33 PM
Quote from: Jono2 on January 31, 2008, 06:02:45 PM
that sucks... spend time with them, get them to rehab. make sure they don't even think of doing it again, but have them remember that they DID try to do it, and have them remember how selfish it is.
Well, I doubt he'll go to rehab, but i'm attempting to remind him that he does have friends.
that's important, and to have them supporting him.
I just understood your title & name now. it's lame, but it's a funny joke at the same time. :P
Quote from: Jono2 on January 31, 2008, 06:10:53 PM
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:08:33 PM
Quote from: Jono2 on January 31, 2008, 06:02:45 PM
that sucks... spend time with them, get them to rehab. make sure they don't even think of doing it again, but have them remember that they DID try to do it, and have them remember how selfish it is.
Well, I doubt he'll go to rehab, but i'm attempting to remind him that he does have friends.
that's important, and to have them supporting him.
I just understood your title & name now. it's lame, but it's a funny joke at the same time. :P
Yeah.
Well, this also isn't the first time a friend has tried to commit suicide.
Yeah.
First time I went into chat, people were like, "Who the hell is Seven?" And then someone else said that 7 ate 9. So yeah.
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Are you serious?
You're a intercourse ing poop hole.
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:17:18 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Are you serious?
You're a intercourse ing poop hole.
In more then one way, your not the only one that thinks that about him.
Anyways if anything I wouldn't really get involved, just be there to help him when he needs it, but otherwise if you get to into it, he will grow dependent on the attention he gets for trying to kill himself, and/or eventually hurt you or someone you know.
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:33:43 PM
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:17:18 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Are you serious?
You're a intercourse ing poop hole.
In more then one way, your not the only one that thinks that about him.
Anyways if anything I wouldn't really get involved, just be there to help him when he needs it, but otherwise if you get to into it, he will grow dependent on the attention he gets for trying to kill himself, and/or eventually hurt you or someone you know.
He actually doesn't like to draw attention, so I doubt that'll happen.
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 06:37:36 PM
STICK IT IN HIS POOPER
Dude suicide is a serious business to be saying poop like that.
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:17:18 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Are you serious?
You're a intercourse ing poop hole.
Thanks :)
Don't do anything until you know the whole story. Ask around about his attitude, question his teachers about his grades in school. That ought to give you a good idea of when the problems started.
Why does he want to kil himself?
How?
Rope? Gun? Knife? Toaster in the bathtub?
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:40:01 PM
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 06:37:36 PM
STICK IT IN HIS POOPER
Dude suicide is a serious business to be saying poop like that.
lol suicide is funny. let those failures go! I don't want their poop in my world. Fuckers can't even handle living. And they don't even try to help the world before they die? how pathetic.
(http://nsiderforums.net/Themes/NSFClassic/images/warnwarn.gif) Try saying that to me, who's had the same thing happen.
I don't take this lightly.
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 07:50:02 PM
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:40:01 PM
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 06:37:36 PM
STICK IT IN HIS POOPER
Dude suicide is a serious business to be saying s*** like that.
lol suicide is funny. let those failures go! I don't want their s*** in my world. f***ers can't even handle living. And they don't even try to help the world before they die? how pathetic.
(http://nsiderforums.net/Themes/NSFClassic/images/warnwarn.gif) Try saying that to me, who's had the same thing happen.
I don't take this lightly.
You have gotten a point there, people who suicide themselves are idiots.
But you can ALSO prevent them from doing so.
I say get in his face about it. Tell him he needs to stop being so god darn selfish and ask him what the hell is wrong.
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 07:50:02 PM
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:40:01 PM
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 06:37:36 PM
STICK IT IN HIS POOPER
Dude suicide is a serious business to be saying poop like that.
lol suicide is funny. let those failures go! I don't want their poop in my world. intercourse ers can't even handle living. And they don't even try to help the world before they die? how pathetic.
(http://nsiderforums.net/Themes/NSFClassic/images/warnwarn.gif) Try saying that to me, who's had the same thing happen.
I don't take this lightly.
I can say that, with the same thing happened to me 3 times. You learn to not care after awhile, and it's been more personal then friends. So you haven't experienced it more then me.
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 07:57:36 PM
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 07:50:02 PM
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:40:01 PM
Quote from: GoldBird97 on January 31, 2008, 06:37:36 PM
STICK IT IN HIS POOPER
Dude suicide is a serious business to be saying poop like that.
lol suicide is funny. let those failures go! I don't want their poop in my world. intercourse ers can't even handle living. And they don't even try to help the world before they die? how pathetic.
(http://nsiderforums.net/Themes/NSFClassic/images/warnwarn.gif) Try saying that to me, who's had the same thing happen.
I don't take this lightly.
I can say that, with the same thing happened to me 3 times. You learn to not care after awhile, and it's been more personal then friends. So you haven't experienced it more then me.
It is not funny, though it is your opinion, but if the world was to let people or failures in which you call people with problems, then please do explain why you are still living, doesn't seem to make sense, now does it. It's not the fact that they can't handle life, it's the fact they feel like life is pointless and feel they have no reason for living... I'd suggest you think before purposing or saying such strong opinions.
There are a few things that you can do:
1. Be there for him
2. Have him seek help from a shrink
3. keep tabs on him
Those are a few things that I can pull outta my ass. The only thing that people who try to commit suicide do not take into consideration is the lives that one taken life can mess up. I had some friends that went to scouts with me that had their dad die (I think he shot himself) but he did not think of the impact it would have on the family. Suicide is kinda selfish if you look at it.
Y'know, it is true that suicide is selfish in a way. A lot of people find it as a solution to their problems, and have no intercourse ing clue how their relatives and friends would feel.
And then there's emos who attempt suicide for attention.
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:20:24 PM
There are a few things that you can do:
1. Be there for him
2. Have him seek help from a shrink
3. keep tabs on him
Those are a few things that I can pull outta my ass. The only thing that people who try to commit suicide do not take into consideration is the lives that one taken life can mess up. I had some friends that went to scouts with me that had their dad die (I think he shot himself) but he did not think of the impact it would have on the family. Suicide is kinda selfish if you look at it.
It is. I have no sympathy for people who commit suicide. Or attempt it. They just think about themselves and escaping the world. They never think of their family, or the people that find them.
But then, I feel its their choice . If they are sick of living and have no more fun in life, then I suppose you shouldn't stop them.
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 08:23:47 PM
Y'know, it is true that suicide is selfish in a way. A lot of people find it as a solution to their problems, and have no intercourse ing clue how their relatives and friends would feel.
And then there's emos who attempt suicide for attention.
Oh god, the emos >_>
Quote from: Phaze on January 31, 2008, 08:28:42 PM
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:20:24 PM
There are a few things that you can do:
1. Be there for him
2. Have him seek help from a shrink
3. keep tabs on him
Those are a few things that I can pull outta my ass. The only thing that people who try to commit suicide do not take into consideration is the lives that one taken life can mess up. I had some friends that went to scouts with me that had their dad die (I think he shot himself) but he did not think of the impact it would have on the family. Suicide is kinda selfish if you look at it.
It is. I have no sympathy for people who commit suicide. Or attempt it. They just think about themselves and escaping the world. They never think of their family, or the people that find them.
But then, I feel its their choice . If they are sick of living and have no more fun in life, then I suppose you shouldn't stop them.
Unfortunatly suicide is the easy way out. I would rather work through my problems, I can't and wont put my family through that.
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:30:27 PM
Quote from: Phaze on January 31, 2008, 08:28:42 PM
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:20:24 PM
There are a few things that you can do:
1. Be there for him
2. Have him seek help from a shrink
3. keep tabs on him
Those are a few things that I can pull outta my ass. The only thing that people who try to commit suicide do not take into consideration is the lives that one taken life can mess up. I had some friends that went to scouts with me that had their dad die (I think he shot himself) but he did not think of the impact it would have on the family. Suicide is kinda selfish if you look at it.
It is. I have no sympathy for people who commit suicide. Or attempt it. They just think about themselves and escaping the world. They never think of their family, or the people that find them.
But then, I feel its their choice . If they are sick of living and have no more fun in life, then I suppose you shouldn't stop them.
Unfortunatly suicide is the easy way out. I would rather work through my problems, I can't and wont put my family through that.
I don't mean like stupid teens who think everybody is out to get them so they kill themselves, I guess I mean like old people. Who have done alot in their lives and are now just rotting away in their beds. If they want to die then you shouldn't stop them.
Quote from: Phaze on January 31, 2008, 08:36:34 PM
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:30:27 PM
Quote from: Phaze on January 31, 2008, 08:28:42 PM
Quote from: Tahrann on January 31, 2008, 08:20:24 PM
There are a few things that you can do:
1. Be there for him
2. Have him seek help from a shrink
3. keep tabs on him
Those are a few things that I can pull outta my ass. The only thing that people who try to commit suicide do not take into consideration is the lives that one taken life can mess up. I had some friends that went to scouts with me that had their dad die (I think he shot himself) but he did not think of the impact it would have on the family. Suicide is kinda selfish if you look at it.
It is. I have no sympathy for people who commit suicide. Or attempt it. They just think about themselves and escaping the world. They never think of their family, or the people that find them.
But then, I feel its their choice . If they are sick of living and have no more fun in life, then I suppose you shouldn't stop them.
Unfortunatly suicide is the easy way out. I would rather work through my problems, I can't and wont put my family through that.
I don't mean like stupid teens who think everybody is out to get them so they kill themselves, I guess I mean like old people. Who have done alot in their lives and are now just rotting away in their beds. If they want to die then you shouldn't stop them.
That is a bit different. More of a mercy killing.
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a vagina-y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
You're a vagina-y.
Tell him that he has a destiny, and it may be great. Also, tell him that if he commits suicide, he's basically sentencing himself to Hell.
Quote from: mecha_fang on February 01, 2008, 08:53:31 PM
Also, tell him that if he commits suicide, he's basically sentencing himself to Hell.
Bit extreme.
Tell him we would all (meaning family, friends, ect.) miss him if he killed himself. Make sure he thinks of his family first before himself.
Quote from: mecha_fang on February 01, 2008, 08:53:31 PM
Tell him that he has a destiny, and it may be great. Also, tell him that if he commits suicide, he's basically sentencing himself to Hell.
technically, if he commits suicide, that was his destiny, because nothing else could have possibly happened, because it didn't happen.
For some reason I feel unimportant, unwanted, and a waste of space. I can't even talk to thisgirl I really like. I don't want to, but I may commit sucicide to put an end to all my misery. :( :( :(
Quote from: HYRULESEAS on February 01, 2008, 11:32:44 PM
For some reason I feel unimportant, unwanted, and a waste of space. I can't even talk to thisgirl I really like. I don't want to, but I may commit sucicide to put an end to all my misery. :( :( :(
I sometimes feel like that...
But I will NEVER EVER commit suicide.
And you shouldn't either.
anyways, tell him that if he killed himslef, tell him to think of all the things that are good in life, and think about how his family/friends would react, tell him, he shouldn't put himslef before the ones he cares about....
Sorry if that was already said...:(
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:35:03 PM
Quote from: ChunkeyMunkey on January 31, 2008, 06:33:43 PM
Quote from: Seven on January 31, 2008, 06:17:18 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a p***y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
Are you serious?
You're a f***ing arsehole.
In more then one way, your not the only one that thinks that about him.
Anyways if anything I wouldn't really get involved, just be there to help him when he needs it, but otherwise if you get to into it, he will grow dependent on the attention he gets for trying to kill himself, and/or eventually hurt you or someone you know.
He actually doesn't like to draw attention, so I doubt that'll happen.
You also said he wasn't the type to try and commit suicide. =|
My great uncle... on my mom's birthday... I had only met him once... 3 months prior...
Don't let your friend do it no matter what... okay..
Quote from: THEEVILSPERKY on February 02, 2008, 11:44:45 AM
My great uncle... on my mom's birthday... I had only met him once... 3 months prior...
Don't let your friend do it no matter what... okay..
Okay, I can understand that that'd be a total shocker. Wow, 2 days in a row I have heard of friends that have either 1. accidentally killed themselves. and 2. friends that have tried to kill themselves.
@ anyone who makes a silly remark about this: You must have a heart of stone and should go to h***. This isn't something to be joking about. This is SERIOUS.
BTW, don't move this to serious discussion just cuz I said that.Quote from: Mystic Swampert on February 01, 2008, 08:49:07 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on February 01, 2008, 08:47:17 PM
Quote from: Mystic Swampert on February 01, 2008, 08:40:34 PM
Quote from: Co-Z on January 31, 2008, 06:15:20 PM
Call him a p***y for not doing it. See how he reacts.
You're a p***y.
You are what you eat.
I always knew you were an ass.
Co-Z, STOP THIS! HIS FRIEND DOESN'T NEED TO BECOME EVEN MORE DEPRESSED. IT'S BAD ENOUGH FOR SEVEN AS IT IS! YOU'RE SUCH AN A**HOLE, CO-Z!