(I know this is going to turn out really bad...*cringes*)
Okay, so I like this girl(Jessica) and I only know her name by looking in a year book. I don't know who she is and she probably doesn't know who I am seeing that she is a junior and I'm a sophomore. I have the same lunch as her for half of the year. Now lets not get into too much detail...
How do I talk/introduce my self to a girl who I like and don't know.
(Rio no, I'm not just going to walk up to her and say "o hai i liek u")
high school
She's a junior and youre a sophmore
All I can say is that this isn't going to go well X_X;;
Hm. Well. To be honest, when I see someone I like. I would stalk them a bit. Look if she has a facebook, and see if she has any friends in common with you or something. [Facebook is the easier way out, but if she doesn't have a facebook or something. Ask some of your friends if they know her instead.] And like ask your friend to introduce you to her. Or something, that way its not that awkward, then just approaching her randomly.
And well. I don't think sophomore and junior thing would be a problem. Cause my friend was a junior and he dated a freshman in college. [He knew her when she was a senior and he was a sophomore.]
You really, really should have them be a friend first or at least have a general mutual understanding of each others' existence. All my relationships have been with people I've known for at least a year. I know that if I went up to some random girl and was all like HAY she'd probably think I was a total wacko.
I never introduce myself to someone else.
Usually I take a week or 2, see what the person is like, wait until they have to answer a question in class or something, and then make a joke about what they said. That's how I made all my friends.
Strike up a conversation about something that you like and hope/know/think she likes too. I sometimes do so with anime. If you hear her talking to someone else about anime, just as an example of course, make it seem like you're just "passing by" and you "noticed you're talking about one of my favorite anime" and whatever.
Facebook is doing site maintenance D:
And That wont work for me unless when my schedule changes I end up in her study hall or something Omega...
Pick-up lines are suicide, so don't even try them, comrade D:
Try to become friends, but not bestest friends or something, but more than acquaintances.
Sort of like my friendship between Ashley and I. Not best friends, but we know each other pretty good.
SIDE NOTE: Go to /b/. They can help.
Quote from: Zovistograt on September 05, 2008, 06:30:19 PM
Strike up a conversation about something that you like and hope/know/think she likes too. I sometimes do so with anime. If you hear her talking to someone else about anime, just as an example of course, make it seem like you're just "passing by" and you "noticed you're talking about one of my favorite anime" and whatever.
inb4Lichi, he knows a physical description, and that's about it D:
He's going to need to be stalking.
Quote from: Byte on September 05, 2008, 06:32:43 PM
Pick-up lines are suicide, so don't even try them, comrade D:
Try to become friends, but not bestest friends or something, but more than acquaintances.
Sort of like my friendship between Ashley and I. Not best friends, but we know each other pretty good.
SIDE NOTE: Go to /b/. They can help.
Question was how do I introduce talk/introduce myself not "o hai wana be friendz"
/b/? do I dare?
Quote from: Byte on September 05, 2008, 06:32:43 PM
SIDE NOTE: Go to /b/. They can help.
lol r u srs
Go to real life friends. They might have had their own relationships and can halp. I don't know what your student populace is like either so it's hard to base it off of my own school, for example.
/b/ is too iffy.
Quote from: Level_9_Chao on September 05, 2008, 06:37:29 PM
Quote from: Byte on September 05, 2008, 06:32:43 PM
SIDE NOTE: Go to /b/. They can help.
lol r u srs
Go to real life friends. They might have had their own relationships and can halp. I don't know what your student populace is like either so it's hard to base it off of my own school, for example.
/b/ is too iffy.
Byte is a real life friend...We sit together on the bus....(he also lives 10 or so houses away)
She has a facebook, and I don't really know who her friends are (they are either the same age as her or older) but one of her friends went to the same church I used to go to...It also seems that I have to be her friend to view her facebook profile
Quote from: Byte on September 05, 2008, 06:32:43 PM
Pick-up lines are suicide, so don't even try them, comrade D:
Try to become friends, but not bestest friends or something, but more than acquaintances.
Sort of like my friendship between Ashley and I. Not best friends, but we know each other pretty good.
SIDE NOTE: Go to /b/. They can help.
Quote from: Zovistograt on September 05, 2008, 06:30:19 PM
Strike up a conversation about something that you like and hope/know/think she likes too. I sometimes do so with anime. If you hear her talking to someone else about anime, just as an example of course, make it seem like you're just "passing by" and you "noticed you're talking about one of my favorite anime" and whatever.
inb4Lichi, he knows a physical description, and that's about it D:
He's going to need to be stalking.
Startard??? 0_o
Get to know them first.
But I'm not very good at this kind of stuff, so I'm not sure if that's good advice. :P
*sigh*
In a bar...
-.-
Lawl, I've had some somewhat interesting and funny stories about things like this...
On Facebook, just request to be her friend, most poeple really don't care(or at least they don't on Bebo, xD) They be all like " olol I don't know u but friends r kewl"
But not as full of idiocy. Yeah, so just request. I don't think I've ever been denied a friend request on social website things, though I've denied a few...
Quote from: Marth Xero on September 05, 2008, 08:17:03 PM
Lawl, I've had some somewhat interesting and funny stories about things like this...
On Facebook, just request to be her friend, most poeple really don't care(or at least they don't on Bebo, xD) They be all like " olol I don't know u but friends r kewl"
But not as full of idiocy. Yeah, so just request. I don't think I've ever been denied a friend request on social website things, though I've denied a few...
Then it would almost REALLY feel like I'm stalking her...It would also look odd for me to make an account today have no friends and then add her as a friend...
On a side note: I sit just a table away from her...
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 05, 2008, 08:21:30 PM
Quote from: Marth Xero on September 05, 2008, 08:17:03 PM
Lawl, I've had some somewhat interesting and funny stories about things like this...
On Facebook, just request to be her friend, most poeple really don't care(or at least they don't on Bebo, xD) They be all like " olol I don't know u but friends r kewl"
But not as full of idiocy. Yeah, so just request. I don't think I've ever been denied a friend request on social website things, though I've denied a few...
Then it would almost REALLY feel like I'm stalking her...It would also look odd for me to make an account today have no friends and then add her as a friend...
On a side note: I sit just a table away from her...
Use pwnsome eavesdropping skillz, thats what I do :|
Get to know them.
Quote from: Marth Xero on September 05, 2008, 08:17:03 PM
Lawl, I've had some somewhat interesting and funny stories about things like this...
On Facebook, just request to be her friend, most poeple really don't care(or at least they don't on Bebo, xD) They be all like " olol I don't know u but friends r kewl"
But not as full of idiocy. Yeah, so just request. I don't think I've ever been denied a friend request on social website things, though I've denied a few...
I always deny if I don't know the person, even if they say they go to my school.
"How much does a Giant Polar Bear weigh?"
"I don't know?"
"Enough to break the ice. Hi, I'm (name here)."
Usually I just start small talk. Be yourself and be friendly. Be confident.
Just yesterday in my Piano for Non-Majors class in college I went up to this girl in my class when it was over.
"Why'd you choose to take this class?" (small talk, but I was genuinely interested.)
She explained she used to sing and play violin so she enjoys learning new music.
"Ah, that's cool... 'cause you're insanely cute, and a cute girl who can play piano is one of the coolest things to me."
She turned red, smiled and said thanks.
Friendly and Confident. Keep it in mind.
jesus christ kid, this isn't that complicated
just go up to her and say hi or find an opportunity for some small talk...what she's wearing that you like, some interest of hers that you noticed, etc. give her your name, obviously, as well
it shouldn't be any different from introducing yourself to a new guy friend
"Hi, my name is *insert name here*."
Hi my name is *NAME* and I want you to have my baby.
Quote from: Sync on September 05, 2008, 10:30:31 PM
Hi my name is *NAME* and I want you to have my baby.
Surrogate mother.
This thread has me laughing so hard.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on September 05, 2008, 10:34:11 PM
This thread has me laughing so hard.
It has me wondering why guys like Lichigo think they have something to lose by approaching a girl.
Quote from: Mystic on September 05, 2008, 10:26:25 PM
"Hi, my name is *insert name here*."
Smartest post in this thread, oddly enough.
You should walk up to her, completely randomly, and as her if she has any oars you can borrow for your rowboat. It'll all work out from there.
1. Most girls like older guys so it probably wouldn't work out.
2. It's just a crush since you don't even know her, find someone you know you'd like instead of "Oh she's hot, I wanna date her now."
"Hi, what's your name?"
And then talk about what she likes and what her hobbies are. Keep the discussion away from yourself unless she asks.
I just somehow get into the conversation by mixing into a conversation with another friend. It works.
Also, like many said before, this won't end well.
I've never been really interested in any girls I know like that yet.
Anyways, I just treat some girls as friends, and if I feel like I want to go further with one of them from that, then I would.
Umm...I've never introduced myself to a girl. D=
Quote from: Mystic on September 05, 2008, 10:26:25 PM
"Hi, my name is *insert name here*."
But I'll try this.
Quote from: JrDude on September 06, 2008, 02:31:16 AM
1. Most girls like older guys so it probably wouldn't work out.
2. It's just a crush since you don't even know her, find someone you know you'd like instead of "Oh she's hot, I wanna date her now."
That has crossed my mind...but she's so friggin pretty =/
Quote from: Kaz on September 05, 2008, 10:08:17 PM
jesus christ kid, this isn't that complicated
just go up to her and say hi or find an opportunity for some small talk...what she's wearing that you like, some interest of hers that you noticed, etc. give her your name, obviously, as well
it shouldn't be any different from introducing yourself to a new guy friend
All the friends I have came to me, I didn't go to them...thing is I'm not a great people person, I probably have more conversations here than in real life...
I suggest opening with a compliment.
A compliment should not be confused with a pick-up line.
If I feel like talking to a girl, I'll just say "whats up?" and get some small talk going. Unfortunately, I'm not a fan of the average girl, so I normally lose my interest quickly if they are all normal and poop.
Quote from: JrDude on September 06, 2008, 02:31:16 AM
1. Most girls like older guys so it probably wouldn't work out.
2. It's just a crush since you don't even know her, find someone you know you'd like instead of "Oh she's hot, I wanna date her now."
Quite possibly the best and worst advice in here.
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'. Yes, retarded that they'd prefer some random dude taking them to the movies than a guy they get along with. Last night for example, my friend Kim straight up said "I don't date friends". I don't remember what brought it up, but I was with Todd and Matt also haha. Fun night.
Quote from: Friendly Hostile on September 05, 2008, 10:34:11 PM
This thread has me laughing so hard.
haha, likewise.
Quote from: Marth Xero on September 05, 2008, 08:17:03 PM
Lawl, I've had some somewhat interesting and funny stories about things like this...
On Facebook, just request to be her friend, most poeple really don't care(or at least they don't on Bebo, xD) They be all like " olol I don't know u but friends r kewl"
But not as full of idiocy. Yeah, so just request. I don't think I've ever been denied a friend request on social website things, though I've denied a few...
haha, you're much nicer than I am. I don't think I've accept a friend request from someone I didn't know in over a year. I've declined dozens, hah.
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'.
Don't be so quick to throw all women into that, because I've found that to be untrue on many occasions. Lots of relationships have started out as simple friendships. It's just that the closeness, in their cases, obviously got stronger.
Quote from: Kaz on September 07, 2008, 12:17:12 AM
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'.
Don't be so quick to throw all women into that, because I've found that to be untrue on many occasions. Lots of relationships have started out as simple friendships. It's just that the closeness, in their cases, obviously got stronger.
lol, I always get to know them first, and that's been my biggest downfall relationship-wise haha
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Quote from: Kaz on September 07, 2008, 12:17:12 AM
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'.
Don't be so quick to throw all women into that, because I've found that to be untrue on many occasions. Lots of relationships have started out as simple friendships. It's just that the closeness, in their cases, obviously got stronger.
lol, I always get to know them first, and that's been my biggest downfall relationship-wise haha
Generally, if a girl won't go out with you and she says it's because she wants to just be friends with you, she's actually saying that she's just not attracted to you that way. But she's trying to say so nicely.
So basically, it's not because your friends, but rather because she would've never gone out with you in the first place.
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Quote from: ninja on September 07, 2008, 12:21:57 AM
Quote from: Kaz on September 07, 2008, 12:17:12 AM
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'.
Don't be so quick to throw all women into that, because I've found that to be untrue on many occasions. Lots of relationships have started out as simple friendships. It's just that the closeness, in their cases, obviously got stronger.
lol, I always get to know them first, and that's been my biggest downfall relationship-wise haha
Generally, if a girl won't go out with you and she says it's because she wants to just be friends with you, she's actually saying that she's just not attracted to you that way. But she's trying to say so nicely.
So basically, it's not because your friends, but rather because she would've never gone out with you in the first place.
That still doesn't explain why they tell me about not wanting to go out with a different guy friend of hers, because she doesn't want to lose him as a friend if things go bad.
Sometimes, you don't have to look deep.
If you get the answer yourself if you ask her out, then you'll have to try and figure it out... but my chick friends normally vent to me lol. I'm a good listener
and also, I've experienced the same thing they do sometimes... there's a girl I'm attracted to that's finally single, but I don't think I'll make a move on her because I wouldn't want to lose her as a friend if things go sour. I don't think she's attracted to me, so it's making it even more difficult on me. Anyways, I don't need any more stress right now haha.
Wow, I gotta lighten up already, I'm probably coming off as an emo kid on this forum since I'm new and have been stressed since I joined xD
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 06, 2008, 08:18:22 AM
Quote from: JrDude on September 06, 2008, 02:31:16 AM
1. Most girls like older guys so it probably wouldn't work out.
2. It's just a crush since you don't even know her, find someone you know you'd like instead of "Oh she's hot, I wanna date her now."
That has crossed my mind...but she's so friggin pretty =/
Then may luck be with you my friend, but I doubt you'll even say anything to her anyway. And if you so, then I'm almost positive it won't lead to anywhere.
What if I sent her a message in facebook saying "your too pretty to be going to this school" and act as if I've never seen her in school
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 07:42:20 AM
What if I sent her a message in facebook saying "your too pretty to be going to this school" and act as if I've never seen her in school
I wouldn't, she might think your stalking her or something, if she finds out who you are
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 06, 2008, 08:18:22 AM
Quote from: JrDude on September 06, 2008, 02:31:16 AM
1. Most girls like older guys so it probably wouldn't work out.
2. It's just a crush since you don't even know her, find someone you know you'd like instead of "Oh she's hot, I wanna date her now."
That has crossed my mind...but she's so friggin pretty =/Quote from: Kaz on September 05, 2008, 10:08:17 PM
jesus christ kid, this isn't that complicated
just go up to her and say hi or find an opportunity for some small talk...what she's wearing that you like, some interest of hers that you noticed, etc. give her your name, obviously, as well
it shouldn't be any different from introducing yourself to a new guy friend
All the friends I have came to me, I didn't go to them...thing is I'm not a great people person, I probably have more conversations here than in real life...
Same here Lichi. You could try to meet her through a friend that knows her, or being nice around her.
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 07:42:20 AM
What if I sent her a message in facebook saying "your too pretty to be going to this school" and act as if I've never seen her in school
My first thought: "Stalker".
Also, you would have spelled "You're" wrong.
I had the same problem in 7th grade (she was in 8th). Everything went well until she became a freshman..........now we hate eachother........
Just dont do it, trust me.
I never thought introducing yourself to a girl could be a problem... I usually just break into their conversation with some snide comment or advice, and friends for life.
It seems like it would be easier (for me) to start by sending message in facebook but what would I say?
lichigo, once again, do NOT get to know a girl you like over facebook... If she posts in some kind of forum on there that you're on, start having your face popup there, and in a while you could PM her if you're both posting on it. If you just randomly throw a message at her, she's probably going to think you're a creeper lol...
Why aren't I a people person ;-;
Because you're terrible.
>:(
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 10:08:04 AM
Why aren't I a people person ;-;
get over it :robotindifferent:
Quote from: Java_Java on September 07, 2008, 08:30:24 AM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 07:42:20 AM
What if I sent her a message in facebook saying "your too pretty to be going to this school" and act as if I've never seen her in school
My first thought: "Stalker".
Also, you would have spelled "You're" wrong.
Not necessarily a stalker, got a facebook account a few days ago and I could say she showed up on the people you might know and when I saw here picture I thought she was prettier than anyone else I have seen in our school...(or maybe this is why I'm not a people person)
You poor little boy have you "accidentally" ran into her yet?
Quote from: Spam on September 07, 2008, 01:03:34 PM
You poor little boy have you "accidentally" ran into her yet?
No...I was in here gym class last year.....
Oh, so you walked into the wrong locker room while she was changing on "accident"?
I see, I see...
Quote from: ninja on September 07, 2008, 02:19:07 PM
Oh, so you walked into the wrong locker room while she was changing on "accident"?
I see, I see...
-_- No, but in dodge ball I never noticed her but then we did Basket ball(which I hate) I noticed her and I was like "Holy poop she is pretty!" But it was close to the end of the school year and I was a freshman so I figured I didn't have a chance but now I might...
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 02:26:36 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 07, 2008, 02:19:07 PM
Oh, so you walked into the wrong locker room while she was changing on "accident"?
I see, I see...
-_- No, but in dodge ball I never noticed her but then we did Basket ball(which I hate) I noticed her and I was like "Holy poop she is pretty!" But it was close to the end of the school year and I was a freshman so I figured I didn't have a chance but now I might...
Don't be such a pansy boy, you should have been swishin every shot to make her talk to you. In P.E., the women come to me xP
Quote from: ninja on September 07, 2008, 03:00:43 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 02:26:36 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 07, 2008, 02:19:07 PM
Oh, so you walked into the wrong locker room while she was changing on "accident"?
I see, I see...
-_- No, but in dodge ball I never noticed her but then we did Basket ball(which I hate) I noticed her and I was like "Holy poop she is pretty!" But it was close to the end of the school year and I was a freshman so I figured I didn't have a chance but now I might...
Don't be such a pansy boy, you should have been swishin every shot to make her talk to you. In P.E., the women come to me xP
I'm sorry I suck at basket ball, and good for you but it doesn't help me any.
Like someone said, "accidentally" run into her, that would be the start of a conversation, but she'd probably only keep talking to you if she's single and you're not ugly, so, are you ugly? And don't say that you're far from ugly or somethin', 'cause I've heard people say "Oh, I think I'm a good looking guy" then I see their picture and almost hurl. So basically show a picture, though you don't have to, but it would be the easiest way for us to know if you'd even have a chance or not.
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I hate how I look
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:48:36 PM
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
Quote from: JrDude on September 07, 2008, 04:55:53 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:48:36 PM
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
168 pounds at 5' 8" I'm a tad fat but my face has always been like that, got it from my grand mother
Side note: Some girls at school say I'm cute and I have been asked out, I said no for 3 reasons
1. The first time I said yes it was a big mistake(THATS WHAT IT WAS!!!*Goes to Doodles thread*)
2.I tend to no believe them, for certain reasons
3.I like someone else and it wouldn't be right for me to go out with someone if I don't really like them but someone else
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
168 pounds at 5' 8" I'm a tad fat but my face has always been like that, got it from my grand mother
Heavier than me and shorter than me....not good... 0_0;;
She might be friends but in all honesty high school is so shallow you really don't stand much of a chance X_X
Quote from: Nayrman on September 07, 2008, 05:04:28 PM
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[spoiler] (http://i159.photobucket.com/albums/t138/sords4/0525082106a.jpg) [/spoiler]
I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
168 pounds at 5' 8" I'm a tad fat but my face has always been like that, got it from my grand mother
Heavier than me and shorter than me....not good... 0_0;;
She might be friends but in all honesty high school is so shallow you really don't stand much of a chance X_X
Which makes it even harder to talk to her.
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 05:13:11 PM
Quote from: Nayrman on September 07, 2008, 05:04:28 PM
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Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:48:36 PM
[spoiler] (http://i159.photobucket.com/albums/t138/sords4/0525082106a.jpg) [/spoiler]
I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
168 pounds at 5' 8" I'm a tad fat but my face has always been like that, got it from my grand mother
Heavier than me and shorter than me....not good... 0_0;;
She might be friends but in all honesty high school is so shallow you really don't stand much of a chance X_X
Which makes it even harder to talk to her.
And you won't. Seriously, prove me wrong, but I stand by that, you will NOT talk to her, you will want to and want to and then BAM, "oh is it the end of the semester already? darn, I didn't talk to her yet D= "
I know someone (female) that might help me, I'll probably tell her who I like and where she is(we are in the same lunch too) and she will probably force me in doing something(Yea, a girl pretty much beats me up....I live by the rule of you can't hit a girl if she is weaker than you) or she'll do something on her own to help me...
If byte is reading this, she would help, right?
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:58:52 PM
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
2.I tend to no believe them, for certain reasons
Brianna :3
Also, you honestly aren't that big. You have some chub, sure, but that doesn't make you auto-unattractive.
*cries at large gut that I have* :(
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Quote from: JrDude on September 07, 2008, 04:55:53 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:48:36 PM
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
2.I tend to no believe them, for certain reasons
Brianna :3
Also, you honestly aren't that big. You have some chub, sure, but that doesn't make you auto-unattractive.
*cries at large gut that I have* :(
I wasn't sure if I should have believed Terri's friend either
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 06:29:25 PM
Quote from: Byte on September 07, 2008, 06:23:46 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:58:52 PM
Quote from: JrDude on September 07, 2008, 04:55:53 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 07, 2008, 04:48:36 PM
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I hate how I look
With that, she will walk away scared. Unless she likes big guys, big jolly guys are liked because of their jollyness, are you jolly? If so you MIGHT have a chance, but I wouldn't know that either because I don't know what she looks like either.
Wait, are you big? or your face just make it look like you're big?
2.I tend to no believe them, for certain reasons
Brianna :3
Also, you honestly aren't that big. You have some chub, sure, but that doesn't make you auto-unattractive.
*cries at large gut that I have* :(
I wasn't sure if I should have believed Terri's friend either
She was scary, though ;-;
Lets see what happens today.......
*sigh*
good luck, what's the worst that could happen...
Dude, in all honesty the best you could hope for is "friends", since high school is insanely shallow. Generally thats better than risking something awkward...especially at first.
That's just from personal experience with the few girls I'm friends with in college
Quote from: Nayrman on September 08, 2008, 08:04:17 AM
Dude, in all honesty the best you could hope for is "friends", since high school is insanely shallow. Generally thats better than risking something awkward...especially at first.
That's just from personal experience with the few girls I'm friends with in college
I know some of the shallow girls in my school are, and this one I like seems like she would be honest about who she likes.
are you sure she doesn't already have a boyfriend that would kill you if he finds out
Quote from: Commissar Torgo on September 08, 2008, 12:12:11 PM
are you sure she doesn't already have a boyfriend that would kill you if he finds out
She I've only seen her with a guy once...if anything she is gay
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 12:31:38 PM
Quote from: Commissar Torgo on September 08, 2008, 12:12:11 PM
are you sure she doesn't already have a boyfriend that would kill you if he finds out
She I've only seen her with a guy once...if anything she is gay
I'd advise against making assumptions like that about girls unless you want to get dumped within a week by your first one.
Give her the benefit of the doubt before labeling her as a lesbian.
Quote from: Kaz on September 08, 2008, 12:34:45 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 12:31:38 PM
Quote from: Commissar Torgo on September 08, 2008, 12:12:11 PM
are you sure she doesn't already have a boyfriend that would kill you if he finds out
She I've only seen her with a guy once...if anything she is gay
I'd advise against making assumptions like that about girls unless you want to get dumped within a week by your first one.
Give her the benefit of the doubt before labeling her as a lesbian.
/facepalm
I was trying to make the point that I don't think she is going out with someone, I'm sure she isn't really a lesbian.
Here's an idea.
Grow some balls and strike up a conversation.
Quote from: Riosan on September 08, 2008, 12:44:06 PM
Here's an idea.
Grow some balls and strike up a conversation.
Randomly sit at her table and just start saying words?
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 12:45:21 PM
Quote from: Riosan on September 08, 2008, 12:44:06 PM
Here's an idea.
Grow some balls and strike up a conversation.
Randomly sit at her table and just start saying words?
yes, any words will do
Quote from: Commissar Torgo on September 08, 2008, 12:46:40 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 12:45:21 PM
Quote from: Riosan on September 08, 2008, 12:44:06 PM
Here's an idea.
Grow some balls and strike up a conversation.
Randomly sit at her table and just start saying words?
yes, any words will do
a lad asked a lass for a jack salad
"What?"
hi I'm lichig0 how are you
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 12:45:21 PM
Randomly sit at her table and just start saying words?
Pretty much. It's not rocket science. Make a joke or just say hi.
I'm bad with words though....and I know almost no good jokes (me not liking comedy too much doesn't help)
Take it from a guy with experience in such matters,
JUST GET OFF YOUR LAZY ASS AND TALK TO HER
If she thinks you're a creep you'll feel bad for a while but then get over it. It's not the end of the world.
Same thing happened to me, she thought I was a wierdo, and got over it.
Besides, it turns out the friends I have now are a lot more enjoyable to be around than the girl I had a crush on then ;)
Suppose I asked someone I know to tell he I like her and she should meet me or something to that affect?
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 01:31:01 PM
Suppose I asked someone I know to tell he I like her and she should meet me or something to that affect?
for god's just sake ask her your self!
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 01:31:01 PM
Suppose I asked someone I know to tell he I like her and she should meet me or something to that affect?
Might as well ask your friend to go out with her instead.
Is this girl supposed to hold your hands throughout this whole process? No, you shouldn't expect that. Talk to her yourself. She'll be wondering why you can't talk to her. If you're that intimidated by her, how much interest will she have in you when your friend gets talking to her about you? If you can't talk to her, she can't expect much of anything from you. That includes a casual friendship.
You're nervous, yeah, but you can't let that cripple you. Don't bury yourself whenever a relationship doesn't come about either, especially if it's your first venture into the world of relationships. Simply...
DON'T PANIC!
This would have been a lot easier in gym last year :(
I hate myself now....(why can't I do this!?)
It's simple: TURN OFF YOUR BRAIN
makes the process a HELL of a lot easier
Listen to Sperky.
You can also do this: Become friends with her friends, then when you go to talk to your friends, she'll be there too and you can talk to her then.
hmmmm, I wonder if a list of things not to do would be easier....
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 07:13:55 PM
hmmmm, I wonder if a list of things not to do would be easier....
The only thing on the list you need.
1. Don't listen to internerds
Quote from: JrDude on September 08, 2008, 07:18:49 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 07:13:55 PM
hmmmm, I wonder if a list of things not to do would be easier....
The only thing on the list you need.
1. Don't listen to internerds
Does that include you guys?
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 07:22:56 PM
Quote from: JrDude on September 08, 2008, 07:18:49 PM
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 07:13:55 PM
hmmmm, I wonder if a list of things not to do would be easier....
The only thing on the list you need.
1. Don't listen to internerds
Does that include you guys?
Depends on what you think we are.
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'. Yes, retarded that they'd prefer some random dude taking them to the movies than a guy they get along with. Last night for example, my friend Kim straight up said "I don't date friends". I don't remember what brought it up, but I was with Todd and Matt also haha. Fun night.
Not true.
Quote from: Mystic on September 09, 2008, 06:59:25 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'. Yes, retarded that they'd prefer some random dude taking them to the movies than a guy they get along with. Last night for example, my friend Kim straight up said "I don't date friends". I don't remember what brought it up, but I was with Todd and Matt also haha. Fun night.
Not true.
Most girls I knew were like that X_X;;
Quote from: Nayrman on September 09, 2008, 07:14:51 PM
Quote from: Mystic on September 09, 2008, 06:59:25 PM
Quote from: ninja on September 06, 2008, 11:22:28 PM
Women refuse to date guys they find to be 'friends'. Yes, retarded that they'd prefer some random dude taking them to the movies than a guy they get along with. Last night for example, my friend Kim straight up said "I don't date friends". I don't remember what brought it up, but I was with Todd and Matt also haha. Fun night.
Not true.
Most girls I knew were like that X_X;;
Ok.
Quote from: Lichig0 on September 08, 2008, 01:51:34 PM
This would have been a lot easier in gym last year :(
I hate myself now....(why can't I do this!?)
You can......................................but it's going to be really, really, really, really, really hard to.
Locked because Lichig0 is too stupid to realize that instead of asking friends to talk to her, that he should talk to her himself.