Have you ever had a girlfriend or boyfriend?

[Pixie]

lolDx

pfft, and he looks like neenja?!  xP

BTW- to everyone that doesn't know me... no, I'm not a sexual harassment panda >,>... I love sexual jokes, however.

>.> You wish.

No, you're not a sexual harassment panda. 83.. You're pedobear. >_>

Both lol

I'm more guy-loving than girl-loving though.  It has to be a special girl.

Ohh! Yeah. Indeed. Guys > Girls. Lol. DX Omg, most girls are so annoying. xD;; Dating wise. Guys are so relaxed and stuff.

Yep.  And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:

[Vive/Scarffle]

Yep.  And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:

Indeed. nwn! I agree with you 100%.
83

[bluaki]

And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

How can that be a bad thing? >_>

Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:

Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.

[ninja]

Yep.  And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:

lol, apparently not me.  The last time I was hung out with a girl I thought was cute (my best bud's girlfriend's best friend), she said I was too quiet.  Me, quiet?  lawl

Guys show you just the right amount of attention. (:

Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.

<,< anyways, the guys that get the girls are the poop holes that the only kind of attention they give is the wrong kind like you said >,>

[Vive/Scarffle]

And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

How can that be a bad thing? >_>

Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;

Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.

Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.

[Pixie]

And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

How can that be a bad thing? >_>

Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;

Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.

Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.

I swear we're sisters from another mister. O:

Yeah the guys I go after never even joke about sex around me.  Like 80% of guys do realize that the mention of sex could ruin a relationship.

[bluaki]

And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

How can that be a bad thing? >_>

Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;

Oh, that's what you both mean by "healthy relationship". What I consider a healthy relationship is much different (a whole lot more relaxed), but I am pretty obsessed with it.

But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot.

Based on my experiences, I find that rather strange. I'd guess either you're lucky ending up with guys who aren't like that, the ones you have gone for don't openly say they care about it, or there's some regional cultural difference.
Well, not that I ever have nor ever want to date a guy, but I've overheard tons of things happening in hallways and stuff at school.

[Vive/Scarffle]

And girls get a little too obsessed with having a healthy relationship.

How can that be a bad thing? >_>

Cause of the amount of attention they want to receive. Stereotypically. At least so far the ones I dated. And want you to call them during certain times and everyday. And such and such. It gets a bit annoying after awhile. Plus the fact when you don't call or.. Something like so, they go off on a huge rant and like threaten you. @A@;

Might be the right amount of attention, but it's usually not the right kind of attention.

Well. I don't know about pixie. But when I go for a guy, they usually don't care about sex and whatnot. But yeah they pretty much are kinda hard to come by. I'll agree with that.

I swear we're sisters from another mister. O:

Yeah the guys I go after never even joke about sex around me.  Like 80% of guys do realize that the mention of sex could ruin a relationship.

O: /glomps.
I never had a sister before. 8D
</pushes the 3 year old half sister away>

Yeah. I mean, actually. Alot of guys joke around me. xD; But its cause I joke around too, but its not a sense were its really serious. Its like ridiculous stuff, such as humping a donkey or something.. xDDD.
So yeah, but indeed. Most of the time when I have almost dated a guy. They don't joke about sex 1on1 with me. So you know they kinda wanna be serious about it. Well... Once again. Stereotypically, from my own experiences.

Oh, that's what you both mean by "healthy relationship". What I consider a healthy relationship is much different (a whole lot more relaxed), but I am pretty obsessed with it.

Yeah. Well for most girls it's like so. DX;
And well, yeah if its like in a relaxed environment. And like, if you're obsessed with... Like.. Hm.. Holding hands/Cuddling. That's fine. But things like always having to call every 10 mins or always having to tell her you're going out or something...Gets annoying. DX!

Based on my experiences, I find that rather strange. I'd guess either you're lucky ending up with guys who aren't like that, the ones you have gone for don't openly say they care about it, or there's some regional cultural difference.
Well, not that I ever have nor ever want to date a guy, but I've overheard tons of things happening in hallways and stuff at school.

Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something. But when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<
So yeah, I just wait. And avoid those that I feel threaten from and such. But usually, I don't really open myself till after a few weeks. So I'm pretty careful and whatnot. :\

[bluaki]

Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something.

Nah, doesn't offend me at all. I typically don't end up as friends with those kind of people.

But when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<

Yeah, most girls I've seen at school do seem that way.

I've noticed most boys have a stereotype that basically says "Any boy who doesn't act perverted and/or sex-craved is gay", meh.

Also, I have a slight feeling that you're thinking I'm a girl. I can understand why you might think that, but I'm not. >_>

[Vive/Scarffle]

Ah yeah. But thats the thing. I'm not desperate or anything. No offense if some of these things you have heard of are your friends or something.

Nah, doesn't offend me at all. I typically don't end up as friends with those kind of people.

But when girls get into highschool, they think they NEED to get a boyfriend since its highschool and all. So they usually go for the most attractive guy of their liking. Or even getting a boyfriend for status wise. Like my friend who is a cheerleader, dates jocks and such. But yeah, because of that rushing, you would get into alot of trouble. >.<

Yeah, most girls I've seen at school do seem that way.

I've noticed most boys have a stereotype that basically says "Any boy who doesn't act perverted and/or sex-craved is gay", meh.

Also, I have a slight feeling that you're thinking I'm a girl. I can understand why you might think that, but I'm not. >_>

Yeah. Its a really hard world. >.<;; Of all the peer pressure and crap. But thats something everyone just needs to learn/deal with and ignore the pressure.

Oh. No. I know. nwn I'm a little stalker. 83 And check everyone's profiles. But I suppose thats a good feeling, you thinking I'm treating you like a girl. Considering you like to be called like so? I don't know. >.< Sorry if that sounded ass-liked. @A@ I.. Don't know how to put it in the correct words without making a fool of myself.

[Mystic]

Yes.

[JrDude]

... No D=
I fear rejection... Even though I get no where without asking anyway, I feel better not asking then asking and getting rejected...

[THEEVILSPERKY]

Nah, I don't like being exclusive.

I used to just go for serious relationships but that can wait until later in life.  Had a relationship for almost a year a long while back and then she went to Florida for the summer to live with her mom.. I even planned my whole vacation around seeing my family down there around when I could stay at her house for a week, which did work.  Despite all the chemistry we had in every area.. I guess just being away from me for a bit was enough distance to end things.  My last relationship was just over a year but I ended that one myself.  Things got really outta hand.. I was overwhelmed by stress from this and that, mostly her, my friends all saw me as being really unhappy and stressed.. and ultimately the relationship dissolved and for months me and her didn't talk.  The relationship was very successful for a while as a serious relationship but it still fell apart.  Months later we got talking again.  She had another b/f for a short period of time but we started acting like we were back together when I told her I just couldn't handle such a relationship like that again so soon.  Well.. it's hard not to act like how we used to be.. in every aspect.. so.. I dunno what to do.. but we fight a lot still.. and.. who knows..

My experiences have shifted me towards not wanting to be exclusive either anymore.. wink wink.. hahaha. >_>

I just can't go through another crazy relationship.. I'm so dedicated and things fall apart one way or another.. so I'm just going to wait until it seems right again..until I think something can work.. even if it is someone new.  In the meantime.. I'm happy.. um.. hanging out with friends. ^_^  Is the subtle innuendo in that last sentence just obvious enough to get through? xD  But no, really, I love being close with friends just like cuddling and watching a movie and hanging all over each other.  It's so relaxed and not awkward or anything and everyone knows how everyone feels so no boundaries get pushed or anything and every once in a while something might spark and it's just spontaneous kinda and there's just this incredible closeness and freedom and realness about it.  I don't wanna change who I am.. and that's who I am right now.  If I can't dedicate enough time to my friends like I like to now.. I get pretty lonely and upset and it builds up after time (note: this didn't happen much with the almost year-long relationship; she wouldn't get jealous if we're all pal-ing around with friends and all cuddled up watching a movie with a gang or somethin'; last relationship had huge issues...).  I can't give all or most of my attention to just one person; I'm saying "no" to everyone else this way.. and things have usually been awkward when I'm in a relationship and I'm with that person around friends.. it's almost like one or the other.  Right now, I choose friends.. and for the record, the friendships I have are for the most part not all that sexual.. but some are occasionally, haha.

Did I answer the question?  Yeah, the short answer is.. yes, I've had a few, and yes, I've had a few more if experiences count (on both courts/teams/sides/genders.. oh my)! xD

[L10]

Yes if being with a girl like 24/7 in Kindergarten counts...We lost communication pretty much because we were never in the same class until 7 years later

[Friendly Hostile]

O_O... I thought you were joking when you said shirtless is quite okay.

Wow, I took a picture of my boxers for a gay man, even if it was a joke to get reactions from people, hahaha

Oh well.  At least you're not trying to hide it >,>... it annoys me when people hide poop.

Oh the joys of anonymity on the internet. :')